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In the Wake of the Paris Attacks

by Meredith Mullins on November 23, 2015

Le Carillon, one of the sites of Paris attacks of 13 November, with flowers and messages showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Flowers and messages surround Le Carillon, one of the restaurants attacked on November 13.
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French Spirit and Cultural Beliefs Are Woven with Strength and Courage

We don’t usually foresee danger in our daily routines—in restaurants, bars, sports stadiums, or concert halls. We expect to be safe in movie theatres, office buildings, trains, churches, airplanes, and schools—even with past history embedded in our memory.

Sadly, at this time in a world where hatred, violence, guns, and insanity are more common than we could have ever imagined, the risk of danger becomes hauntingly familiar. The possibility plants itself at the edges of our consciousness.

And then the unthinkable happens. Terrorists attack the very essence of everyday rhythms. They assault innocent people—people eating, laughing, cheering their team, drinking, dancing to heavy metal, talking with friends and neighbors.

Flags and flowers for the Paris attacks at the Lion in the Place de la République in Paris, showing the cultural beliefs of the French. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Commemorating the victims of the attacks at the Place de la République
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The Paris Attacks

Paris suffered such attacks on 13 November, 2015. A night of shock and terror, endless sirens, confusion, and tragedy hanging heavy in the air.

A night that brought to light the fact that there is much we do not know about the terrorist underworld. A night that exposed the weaknesses in many of the systems built to keep us safe. A night that was followed by police raids, more attacks (Mali), and threats of attacks (Belgium). A night that reverberates around the world.

French soldiers guard Notre Dame after the Paris attacks, which brought out the best of French cultural beliefs in the aftermath. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

French soldiers guard Notre Dame Cathedral.
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French President Hollande declared a state of emergency. The police went into overdrive, putting pieces of the puzzle together and doing everything possible to identify those responsible and shut down future attacks.

Museums and monuments closed. Soldiers patrolled the streets. The country and the world mourned the dead and prayed for the wounded.

Man lighting candles after the Paris attacks, showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs. (Image © Jerry Fielder.)

Moments of silence
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The Spirit of France

These dramatic events were filled with “Oh, I see” moments. The most meaningful, for me was the immediate emotional and heartfelt stance for the values and cultural beliefs that are at the heart of the character of France.

Sign showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs after the Paris attacks. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

The spirit of Paris
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Liberté. Egalité. Fraternité. Strength. Resilience. Defiance. Solidarity. Love. Desire for peace. Courage to overcome fear. Respect for life.

Place de la République was transformed into an impromptu memorial to commemorate the victims and pledge allegiance to freedom. The words même pas peur (not afraid) became not just a headline, but a mantra.

Place de la République after the Paris attacks showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Même Pas Peur (Not Afraid)
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The Eiffel Tower shimmered with the proud blue, white, and red of the French flag.

The motto for the city of Paris “Fluctuat nec mergitur” emerged as a cry of defiance. The French national anthem (La Marseillaise) burst forth spontaneously in small crowds of patriots.

The Paris Coat of Arms shows the spirit of French cultural beliefs after the Paris attacks. (Image courtesy of the City of Paris.)

The Paris Coat of Arms
Image Courtesy of the City of Paris

Drawing of Eiffel Tower by Stefan Kaufmann, showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs after the Paris attacks. (Image © Stefan Kaufmann.)

Fluctuat nec mergitur (“She is tossed by the waves but does not sink.”)
Image © Stefan Kaufmann

People paid tribute to the victims of each attack site, with silent prayers and reflection, candles, bouquets, and messages of sadness and hope. Flowers filled bullet holes.

Bullet holes at one of the restaurants in the Paris attacks, with flowers showing the spirit of French cultural beliefs. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Flowers filled some of the bullet holes at one of the targeted restaurants.
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Signs of solace and solidarity covered the closed-up buildings and hung from police tape that circled the once lively terraces.

Signs on Le Petit Cambodge showing French cultural beliefs in the wake of the Paris attacks. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Messages on the shuttered wall of Le Petit Cambodge, including “Love is stronger than hate.”
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As the names of victims were released and news spread through their neighborhoods, more prayers, flowers, and messages were offered for the 130 people who lost their lives—at their homes, businesses, and places of worship.

Child's drawing showing French cultural beliefs after the Paris attacks. (Image © Fiona Kemp-Griffin.)

A child speaks from her heart, drawing her tears and her sadness.
Image courtesy of Fiona

The Power of Tears and Flowers

Our lives have changed forever. France sheds tears for the loss of life and the affront to freedom. We are sad, but as many of the messages read, “We will not succumb to hate.”

With a response of courage and the conviction of core cultural beliefs, there is a glimmer of light and hope—especially when a child (in the video below) believes that les méchants of the Paris attacks (“the bad guys”) can be overpowered by the warmth of candles and the beauty of flowers.

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Vive la France.

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Connecting Through the Universal Language of Music

by Meredith Mullins on May 4, 2015

Two dancers in white at the rue Mouffetard in Paris, showing that music is the universal language of connection. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Sunday morning dancing on the rue Mouffetard in Paris
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A Reminder of Old Paris: Singing and Dancing on the Rue Mouffetard

I want to make people cry, even when they don’t understand my words.   —Edith Piaf

It’s Sunday morning in the Square St Médard in Paris. I am singing in the warm sun . . . belting out the words “Tant que l’amour inondera mes matins” from Edith Piaf’s “L’Hymne à l’Amour” (The Hymn to Love).

With my limited French, I don’t quite understand what the words mean; but the song swells up inside and puts a little lump of emotion in my throat. I feel an unexplainable nostalgia.

There are people all around me singing the same words, with the same nostalgia. There are dancers swirling to the accordion accompaniment. Everyone is involved in the song. We are connected by a powerful force. The universal language of music.

Red haired dancer with male companion, dancing at le petit bal on rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image: Meredith Mullins)

A waltz of pure joy at Le Petit Bal Musette
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Oh, I See: The Power of the Musical Bond

Every Sunday morning (except in extreme weather), a community of music lovers comes to the spontaneous musical stage set amidst the bustling market on the rue Mouffetard.

They come to “leave their troubles behind” and lose themselves in the music. They come to step back in time into the unaffected charm of French village life. They come, quite simply, to smile and feel the warmth of a neighborhood.

Singers at le petit bal on the rue Mouffetard , showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Singers from near and far join together as one chorus.
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Le Petit Bal Musette

The leader, accordionist and singer Christian Bassoul, is dedicated to the revival of the “forgotten tradition” of the bal musette, a gathering of families and neighbors to sing and dance to accordion music in the streets.

Every Sunday for more than 30 years, Christian has organized the music. The rest of the story just falls into place with those who happen to stumble on the festivities.

Christian Bassoul at le petit bal on the rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Virginia Kelser Jones)

Christian Bassoul, the organizer of le Bal Musette, with singer Viviane Hatry
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“Regularity and continuity are important,” he says. “Some people come from outside of Paris or from far-away countries, so we try not to disappoint them.”

One American friend of the bal musette plans her schedule around the Sunday morning event. She flies in on Saturday and leaves on Monday. The perfect neighborhood weekend vacation.

The group meets the challenge of Paris weather, which can (and does) change every few minutes. “Sometimes we must sing between the raindrops (passer entre les gouttes),” Christian says. The show must go on.

Children dancing at le petit bal musette on the rue mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

The waltz knows no age limits.
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A Group that Welcomes Everyone

The crowd is diverse—locals and strangers, young and old, worn tennis shoes and sparkling high heels, blue jeans and ruffles. The passionate dancers, singers, and musicians take center stage, aided by the supporting cast of the moment.

Michel Cygan, a dancer at le petit bal musette on the rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Michel Cygan, a regular for more than 15 years
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Many of the dancers are regulars. They have the impeccable style and graceful moves of the best of “Dancing with the Stars” but they’re not searching for fame or fortune. They are here for the sheer joy of dancing.

If you’re shy about dancing but have that “I want to dance” look in your eye or tap in your toe, one of the regulars will waltz you onto the dance floor (albeit asphalt). Or, don’t wait. Join in by yourself or grab hands with the welcoming circle of dancers.

Couple dancing toward the camera at le petit bal musette on the rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins).

The smiles come naturally.
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If you don’t know the words to the songs—so much a part of French tradition—a helpful regular will bring you a song sheet. Edith Piaf, Charles Trenet, Georges Brassens, Félix LeClerc, Aristide Bruant, Charles Aznavour, Josephine Baker, and Jacques Brel will come alive before your eyes.

Baby with song lyrics at le petit bal on the rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

If you need a song sheet, don’t be afraid to ask.
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A Chorus of Friendship

The Mouffetard group bonds through the music and has such community spirit that after the dancing in the square, they reconvene up the street for lunch together.

Then they clear the bistro floor and dance and sing some more. Sometimes on sunny summer days, they continue the party on the banks of the Seine.

B&W photo of dancers by the Seine, part of the rue Mouffetard group, showing the universal language of music. (Image© Meredith Mullins)

The dancing sometimes reconvenes on the banks of the Seine.
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As a teacher of Christian’s said, “Music is like an immense house. You visit a room and there are two or three doors going to other rooms. You can never see all of it.” The possibilities are endless.

No Regrets

There is power in music that transcends the challenges of daily life. The universal language leaps over words and goes straight for the heart. And, on Sundays on the rue Mouffetard, the rhythms of old Paris bring people together in a communal smile.

When everyone sings Piaf’s “Non, je ne regret rien,” there is truth in the music. There are no regrets.

The dip, dancers at le petit bal musette on the rue Mouffetard, showing the universal language of music. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Dipping into life
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More information on Christian Bassoul and Le Petit Bal Musette.

Paris celebrates the 100th anniversary of Edith Piaf’s birth with an exhibit at the Bibliothèque Nationale.

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A Taste of French Sayings

by Meredith Mullins on April 20, 2015

Triptych of mustard, beans, and bread, showing the food focus of French sayings. (Image © Meredith Mullins)

Inspiration for tasty French idioms—mustard, beans, and bread
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French Idioms—A Focus on Food

You may never have had the pleasure of mustard up your nose.

You may never have felt the desperation of having no beans in the house.

You may not know the boredom of a long dreary day, which, in French lore, is “a day without bread.”

But, if you’re living in the world of French sayings, these expressions are common—and mean more than their literal translations. 

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