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Secrets of Success on Leon Panetta’s Walnut Farm

by Sheron Long on March 7, 2013

The Panetta walnut farm, one source of Leon Panetta's secrets of success

Morning light on Leon Panetta’s walnut farm
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Welcome Home, Mr. Panetta

The morning light illuminates Leon Panetta’s walnut farm in his beloved Carmel Valley, a place as unpretentious as the man himself. Fences here are a little bent, a little rusted and hardly the type that you associate with the words “Department of Defense.”

Yet, this walnut farm was home to Panetta whenever he could leave Washington, where he most recently served as Secretary of Defense and Director of the Central Intelligence Agency.

As he said in a 2012 interview with 60 Minutes, “I always thought it was important to get out of Washington . . . to come back home and kind of get your humanity back.”

Home Is a Walnut Farm

Leon Panetta, whose smile shows one of his secrets of success

Leon Panetta, a man with a smile

Leon Panetta’s accomplishments are well known. He has dedicated his life to public service, honoring his father’s view on the importance of giving back to the country that had given so much to his family.

From the perspective of his parents, who immigrated from Italy, the “so much” was the better life they found here for their children.

After selling their Monterey restaurant just after WWII, his parents bought the farm. The family planted the walnut trees themselves. Ever since, this place has been home to Mr. Panetta and later to his wife Sylvia and their three sons. As Mr. Panetta told 60 Minutes, “My body and soul are here.”

I understand why. Not only do I live a few blocks away in this beautiful valley, but having grown up in a family that made a living from pecans and walnuts, I know a little something about the draw of an orchard of nut trees.

On my walk yesterday past the Panetta farm, I began to suspect that this down-to-earth place might offer insight, too.

Finding Secrets of Success in Two Fields

Mr. Panetta graduated magna cum laude in political science, his chosen field along with law. Certainly, this was good preparation, but I believe another kind of field—the walnut farm—also holds secrets to his political success.

Why not? Where better to learn how to make it in Washington than on a nut farm? Just consider what a walnut farm can teach:

1.   How to Be Patient

Across the seasons, you have to turn the soil, tend the trees, wait for the trees to leaf out and the fruit to grow.

Winter on the Panetta walnut farm, where the cycle of the seasons builds patience, one of his secrets of success in life

The Panetta farm with winter clover means it’s almost time to turn the soil.
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From his work in the walnut orchard, Mr. Panetta must have learned not to expect immediate results. In addition to fortitude, it took patience to track Bin Laden, to rebuild the CIA, and to lead the Department of Defense in reducing war and increasing rights for men and women in our Armed Services.

2.   How to Listen

Here in Carmel Valley, the cacophony of crows makes quite a stir. With so much cawing all at once, you have to learn to manage things if you want to hear the messages.

Cawing crow symbolizes learning how to listen, which is one of the secrets of success

Cawing crows create quite a stir.
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Sylvia Panetta adeptly ran the Congressional office here in Monterey during the 16 years that Leon Panetta was in Congress. Their commitment to listening must be why we, Panetta’s constituents, felt heard.

3.   How to Deal with a Tangle

The tree branches on the walnut farm are a gnarly tangle in their winter season. Good thing Mr. Panetta had dealt with this before he got to Washington.

A tangle of walnut branches on Leon Panetta's farm symbolizes another secret of his political success

A tangle of walnut branches on the Panetta farm
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Maybe Mr. Panetta’s skill at pruning helped him know how to cut through debates between the branches of government, too. At Georgetown University, in his last speech before retirement, Panetta described how he and his peers untangled issues and avoided partisan dysfunction. (see video 18:42–24:56)

4.   How to Keep a Sense of Humor

Gophers love to tunnel through the soil here in Carmel Valley, and—OH—they can multiply! When they’re about to get the best of your farm, good traps and a little laughter are in order.

Gopher, a pest, shows that keeping a sense of humor is one of the secrets of success

Pests are everywhere, in Carmel Valley and DC.
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Excellent at framing complex issues, Mr. Panetta also knows how to joke. Just a few weeks ago, when it took longer than expected to approve Chuck Hagel’s nomination as his successor, Panetta expressed his frustration this way: “I feel like it’s ‘Groundhog Day’ around here.”

5.   How to Work Together

The bottoms of the tree trunks on the Panetta farm show evidence of grafting, in which a cutting from one plant is inserted into the other. Grafting makes walnut trees sturdier and causes them to produce, years sooner, fruit of higher quality.

Walnut tree with evidence of grafting on trunk symbolizes that teamwork is one of the secrets of success

Two parts of different trees, joined through grafting, made this walnut tree strong.
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Like grafting, the propagation of good ideas in Washington depends on teamwork. Leon Panetta never lost sight of that. As a result, he earned trust in all quarters, receiving unanimous 100-0 approval of his nomination for Secretary of Defense.

Let’s recap—patience, listening well, untangling issues while keeping a sense of humor, and being on the American team. These are all good secrets of success. Oh, I see.

But there’s more to this Oh, I see moment—such secrets of success come naturally to a person like Mr. Panetta who lives his life wanting to do something rather than to be somebody.

What will Mr. Panetta do next? Again, the walnut farm offers a clue:

Bud on walnut tree at the Panetta farm symbolizes new life

A bud on one of Panetta’s trees points to new beginnings.
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New life is always sprouting.  Mr. Panetta returns to The Panetta Institute of Public Policy, which he and Sylvia Panetta founded in 1997. He will moderate the acclaimed Lecture Series for 2013.

For more on Mr. Panetta’s life and values, see Julia Prodis Sulek’s article in the San Jose Mercury News.

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Apps for Apes Point the Way to a Happier Life

by Meredith Mullins on February 28, 2013

Three orangutans making choices about apps for apes to live a happier life

What should we do today?
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Making Choices Count

“What do you want to do today?”

“Dunno. How about you?”

“We could hang around for a while, then get something to eat.”

“That sounds good. But we do that everyday.”

“We could try that virtual drum app on the iPad.”

“Yeah, I like that one. Awesome rhythms.”

“Or the koi pond app. I love those shimmering fish swimming in the turquoise water. It’s relaxing. Even when I’m calm, though, I like to tap that screen and watch those koi scatter.”

“Bring on the iPads!”

This conversation could be among any group of friends. In fact, however, it’s how I imagine Bonnie, Kyle, and Iris start their day at the Smithsonian’s National Zoo in Washington D.C.

They’re orangutans. And, like many others in 13 zoos around the world, they are part of the Apps for Apes program.

Orangutan paints with apps for apes to live a happier life

Orangutan artist at work
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Apps for Apes (sponsored by Orangutan Outreach) offers a variety of technology choices for orangutans to enrich their lives. It’s well known that orangutans are intelligent, but who knew they also have a geek streak?

When I first saw stories about this program, I sensed there were some valuable lessons to be learned. The apps provide a daily dose of mental and physical stimulation and that little dash of spice to keep things interesting. Isn’t that a good idea for all of us?

Oh, I see. A little spice can make us happier.

Thoughtful Orangutan ponders making choices to live a happier life with apps for apes

Hmmm. Life is full of interesting choices.
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Lively Life Adventures

What else can I learn from my orangutan friends? With a 97% overlap in DNA between orangutans and us humans, I imagine that they have trouble, just like us, deciding what to do each day.

If there are free hours, why not have access to some entertainment, some digital stimulation, some new sights and sounds? Why not enrich life with new adventures?

Oh I see. Everyone’s life can be a little happier by making energizing and creative choices—and that includes the lives of our friends in the primate world.

Variety is Vital

Great ape keepers know how important it is to vary the daily lives of orangutans to keep them from getting bored or depressed. The caregivers provide variety in food, toys, and social interactions—all geared toward a happier life.

Now, they can also add technology—and give the animals a choice of interactive books, cameras, and apps that offer even more variety for stimulation and creative challenge.

Orangutan with iPad making choices to live a happier life with apps for apes

Orangutan studies his animal friends
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Freedom of Choice

The Apps for Apes program puts iPads at the fingertips of these intelligent creatures and gives them freedom of choice to select what appeals to them.

The animals are never forced to play with an iPad. They have to show interest. And they do!

They love painting, playing the piano or xylophone, pounding out a percussive riff on the drums, or just watching koi swim. Take a look in the video below.

If video does not display, watch it here.

They also like looking at themselves (not unlike the most vain of us humans). When Mahal, an orangutan in Milwaukee, first saw himself on camera, he raised his hands and clapped. With all due humility, he gave himself a standing ovation.

Orangutans also like seeing other folks in the animal world. Soon, they’ll be skyping each other from one zoo to the next or friending one another to keep in touch. Can Angry Birds’ competitions be far behind?

Oh, I see. Choosing our own activities frees us to be who we really are.

Kindred Spirits

Every time I watch a video of a great ape or see photographs like those posted here, I feel we are kindred spirits.

And, as with any kindred spirit, there is much to be learned—the vitality of variety, the importance of making creative selections, and the need for freedom of choice.  Going ape for apps is just a plot line. This story is really about making good everyday choices for an adventurous, rewarding, and happier life.

Baby orangutan looks hopeful about making choices to live a happier life with apps for apes

Kindred spirits
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To support Orangutan Outreach, you can donate an old iPad (or send a check). Orangutans are critically endangered in the wild because of rapid deforestation and the expansion of palm oil plantations into their rainforest home. If nothing is done to protect them, they will be extinct in just a few years. 

VIA Smithsonian’s National Zoo.

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This Life Lesson Ain’t No Lie

by Janine Boylan on February 25, 2013

woman with long nose, illustrating a life lesson about telling lies

Lies tend to catch up with you.
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Have You Lied Today?

I did, even though one life lesson I’ve surely learned is: Don’t lie. 

I was at this restaurant where the service was impossibly slow and the food mediocre. I had to go into the kitchen to summon the server and request my check. When she sauntered out and gave me the bill, she asked: How was everything? My answer: Fine.

No, it wasn’t! But it was easier to tell a little lie than to have a confrontation.

According to a 2010 research study (Serota, Levine, Boster), on average, adults lie 11 times a week. Consider the US adult population of about 240 million x 11 lies a week x 52 weeks a year. You can see where the math is headed—we had 137 billion lies floating around in 2012! That’s 261,187 lies per minute.

No surprise. Lies have been with us since ancient times:

  • If Homer’s version of the Trojan War (circa 1184 BCE) is true,  the Greeks told a whopper when they placed the big wooden horse at the gates of Troy and said it was a gift.
  • In ancient Rome at Ephesus, a grand library was built in 117 CE with an underground tunnel that led to a brothel. That way Romans could say they were going to the library when they had other plans.
Toy blocks spelling "lie" to highlight a life lesson about telling lies

Lies block healthy relationships
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And so it goes up to modern times when

  • Runner Rosie Ruiz slipped out of the pack of runners in the 1980 Boston marathon, took the subway to a mile from the finish line, and then ran the last leg of the race to be the first across the finish line.
  • Popular 1990’s Grammy-winning pop band Milli Vanilli didn’t sing even a note on their albums.
  • Presidential candidate John Edwards denied an extramarital affair and fathering a child out of wedlock.
  • Investor Bernard Madoff scammed billions from investors in an enormous Ponzi scheme over more than ten years.

Lies come in all sizes. Some affect the course of history and some cause relationships to run their course.

Why Do People Lie?

It’s actually a lot of work to lie. You have to create a believable story, deliver it convincingly, and then remember all the details so you’ll never get caught. All that makes you anxious!

Once you start with a lie, it’s hard to stop. Likely, you’ll be caught, and then facing the consequences of your lie can be horrible. In some cases, it can ruin everything you’ve worked hard for. Just ask Lance Armstrong. Or Mark McGwire and Sammy Sosa. Or Marion Jones.

So, why do people lie?

  • To save face: Sorry I didn’t respond—I never got your text.
  • To look better: I was on the first string in high school. 
  • To be nice: Your chicken stew is delicious.
  • To deflect or avoid blame: My husband made me late. Or: That green vase? No, I never touched it.
  • To avoid conflict: It wasn’t my decision, but I have to let you go.

See more everyday examples in Justin Barber’s clever “Truth and Lies” poster series.

Everyday lies can turn into a habit.  Habits can lead to careers built on lies:  No, I have never taken any banned substances.

disgraced biker, showing a life lesson about lies

Telling lies is stressful.
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There’s a Good Reason Not to Lie

The Science of Honesty study, directed by Anita E. Kelly and and Lijuan Wang at Notre Dame, investigated links between lying and health.

Across ten weeks, one group in the study was directed to stop telling lies (both big and little), while the control group received no special instructions. Both groups answered questions weekly about their health and relationships and took polygraph tests about the number of lies they had told that week.

The results? The people in the study had an important Oh, I see moment. Both their health and relationships improved as they told fewer lies.

How Can You Change Your Ways?

According to experts, it may be easier than you think. Once you accept that everyone makes mistakes, you can make a short apology rather than a lot of excuses. It’s also easier to stand up and take responsibility for something that went wrong. And, as the participants in the Science in Honesty study advise, you can just decide to tell the truth about your accomplishments rather than exaggerating them.

Being truthful doesn’t mean that you have to be unkind either. Maybe you don’t so much like the fit and radiant green of your friend’s new pants, but you can zero in on something positive:  Hey, you’ll stand out in a crowd!

Oh, I see. I can find ways to be more truthful. Next time I’m in a mediocre, sluggishly-paced restaurant and the server says How was everything?, I can answer honestly: Well, this will certainly be something to write about! 

The Science for Honesty study, running from 2011-2013, is sponsored by the John Templeton Foundation

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