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Seeing Things Differently: The Homeless Woman

by Janine Boylan on March 18, 2013

Smiling homeless woman helping us see things differently

A woman from a shelter in Lynchburg, Virginia, where residents are trained,
encouraged, and educated.
© Kelly Reece

I have passed the homeless women in my community many times. I’m ashamed to say that I hadn’t thought much about them. That is, until I learned their stories.

  • A 77-year-old retired teacher. After educating our community’s children, when she could no longer work, she had nowhere left to go.
  • A 24-year-old new mom. If she can’t find a place to live, she will lose her baby.
  • A 70-year-old cancer victim. After chemotherapy, she crawls back into her tent in the park.
  • A private school graduate who owned a small local business. When the economy turned, she lost everything, including a place to live.
  • A 60-year-old who was a housekeeping supervisor at a prestigious resort. She never earned quite enough to save for retirement.
  • A 64-year-old former farm worker. She came to the US from Mexico and worked in the fields for 30 years, but now she has nothing to show for it.

Contrary to stereotypes, these women do not all have mental illnesses. Only about 16% of homeless people suffer from mental illness.

They are not all drug or alcohol addicts. In fact, about 74% of homeless people are not addicts.

Some of them even have jobs.

They all simply cannot afford to live in a house. They do not have a place to put their things.

Instead they spend each night in a car, a camper, or on the street.

Homeless woman, illustrating the need to see things differently

It’s illegal to sleep in one’s car or to loiter.
So homeless people are breaking the law because they don’t have a home.
© Margo Duvall

Ann, a woman in Los Angeles, gives her perspective on life.

If the video does not display, watch it here.

Oh, I see these women differently. They are more like me than I ever realized.

Facts About Homeless Women

The percentage of homeless women is growing quickly. Why?

Homeless woman at the bottom of stairs, helping us see things differently

Homeless women need to be protected from crime.
© Thinkstock

  • On average, women earn 13.5% less than men. Some women have jobs that pay such low wages they cannot afford housing. An estimated 13% of the homeless people in major cities have a job.
  • No one wants to hire an “older” woman.
  • Divorce or domestic violence forces them to leave a home.
  • They use their income to help family and have nothing left for themselves.
  • Housing prices have gone up. Social welfare programs have been cut back.
  • About 10% of homeless people are veterans. A female veteran is four times more likely to become homeless than a male veteran.

While there are numerous established shelters for men who have no homes, there are fewer places for homeless women. People fear that homeless men are violent and try to keep them off the streets. But there isn’t the same concern about homeless women.

Without a door to lock behind them at night, homeless women are often targets of assalt.

One woman shared, “We don’t want to be invisible, feared, or blamed; we only want to be safe.”

Local Action

In my community, Reverends Michael Reid and Kathy Whilden are committed to changing the lives of these women, and they are starting by helping people like me see things differently. They are speaking at libraries, community meetings—anywhere they can be heard. They know that these women need help every day, whether it is food, a place to stay, a job. They need advocates who can help change public policy.

Erika Fiske is a local journalist. She realized that what she could do was introduce the community to these individuals by getting to know their stories. Every week, she features a homeless person like the retired teacher in her column in the local paper (see page 8).

Margo Duvall is a photographer. She met these women and took responsibility to capture their images in a way that respected and honored their stories. Her photos were part of an exhibit called “Becoming Visible” that featured local women who don’t have homes.

What Can I Do?

“Each of us has the power to do something. If you don’t know what to do,” advises Rev. Reid, “take the first step to try.”

Opening my eyes and seeing things differently, I have recognized that I need to help these women.

Homeless woman, helping us see things differently

600,000 families and 1.35 million children are homeless, making up
half of the homeless population.
© Kelly Reece

We can all help them.

  • We can stop and talk with them on the street.
  • We can give food to them so they can save what little money they have for housing.
  • We can donate to funds set up to support them.
  • We can attend local government meetings and advocate for shelter funding.

Just Give.org offers many other ways to help.

Reflecting on her encounters with homeless women, photographer Margo Duvall concludes, “What I learned is at our core, we are all the same. We all need food and shelter. We all have fears. We all have hopes. We all need someone to hear our voice.”

Reverend Whilden maintains a Facebook page to educate and support the local homeless women. A documentary is being planned to highlight their lives. The page also has a link to the “Fund for Homeless Women” at Community Foundation. 

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Life Changing Moments: One Billion Rising in Paris

by Meredith Mullins on February 21, 2013

Women Dancing at One Billion Rising in Paris in a Life Changing Moment to Stop Violence Against Women

One Billion Rising in Paris
© Meredith Mullins

Stop Violence Against Women

A convergence of forces.

Start with  . . .

An ongoing annual event on Valentine’s Day to stop violence against women and girls (organized since 1998 by Eve Ensler, women’s rights activist and creator of “The Vagina Monologues”).

Fuel it with . . .

Recent brutalities, including the gang rape of Jyoti Singh in India, the shooting of Pakistani activist Malala Yousafzai, and the alledged gang rape of a young woman in Steubenville, Ohio, by members of the high school football team.

Punctuate it with . . .

A world cry that enough is enough.

Decide . . .

To make this year’s Valentine’s Day a global day of action.

Add . . .

Media momentum and star power (Jane Fonda, Anne Hathaway, Anoushka Shankar, Rosario Dawson, the prime ministers of Australia and Croatia, the Queen Mother of Bhutan)

The result: One Billion Rising—Life Changing Moments for the World

Flash Mob at One Billion Rising, a life changing moment to stop violence against women

Flash Mob at One Billion Rising in Paris
© Meredith Mullins

Valentine’s Day: One Billion Rising

What were the goals of One Billion Rising as it staged a global flash mob, dance, and revolution on Valentine’s Day 2013?

  • To raise awareness
  • To bring people around the world together with one voice, in one act of solidarity
  • To demand an end to violence against women and girls

And, indeed, One Billion Rising met its goals.

We delivered facts to raise awareness: One in every three women in the world will be raped or beaten—one billion women. This is an atrocity.

We came together, in countries all over the world. We danced. We talked. We smiled as if we’d known each other for a lifetime. We grew stronger with numbers.

We, in Paris, felt a bond with those who “rose up” in India, The Democratic Republic of Congo, Brazil, Somalia, the U.K., Nepal, South Africa, the Philippines, the U.S. and every other country in the world, all of which had group action set for the day.

With our voices strong, we asked for an end to violence against women and girls.

Dancer at One Billion Rising, a life changing moment to stop violence against women

Rise up and dance
© Meredith Mullins

Oh, I See

It is possible to raise awareness with a global event. It is possible to feel a unity, a bond, across vast physical and cultural distances, with song and dance and justified cause. The reward was a joyful OIC moment, but there was need for more.

Oh, I Wonder

At the Paris gathering, I asked people why they were there and what would come next. I was relieved to hear that most had a plan.

Many were already a part of organizations active in women’s rights issues. Many vowed to continue the fight for strong legislation. Many said they would take action every day to transform the world. All were committed to justice, equality, and respect.

Who wouldn’t be, you ask? Too many. That’s why we have to make our voices heard.

Participant in One Billion Rising raises the one billion sign in a life changing moment to stop violence against women.

One World; One Billion Rising
© Meredith Mullins

Oh, I Hope

The V-Day roar was loud and clear. For one brief shining moment our voices amplified the message. An energy emerged—worldwide—and it was powerful. Life changing moments occurred. But the news cycle is short.

Now, one week later, the voices are a little fainter. Where will they be one month from now . . . one year from now?

Was One Billion Rising enough?

No.

But it’s a start.

Now . . . it’s time to change the world.

 

Others involved in the movement to stop violence against women:  One Billion RisingEve Ensler, RAINN, Amnesty International, The Advocates for Human Rights.

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Lessons from Sandy: How to Avoid a Second Disaster

by Janine Boylan on January 21, 2013

Tools symbolizing the need to avoid a second disaster by making good choices when you donate after disasters like Hurricane Sandy

Donations of tools: helpful or costly after a disaster?
© Thinkstock

Making Good Choices—Will You Give a Hand? Or the Shirt Off Your Back?

Hurricane Sandy tore through the Northeast nearly three months ago. While Congress debates aid funding, millions of people are donating to the victims. Are they making good choices? What choice would you make?

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