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Fond ‘n Funny Valentines from Un-Secret Admirers

by Your friends at OIC on February 11, 2021

Deer head with heart-shaped glasses on a funny valentine card, part of the cultural traditions of Valentine's Day. image © Sheron Long

Who sent this funny valentine? Today you get to open someone else’s mail
and unmask the admirer. Read on…
© Sheron Long

Cultural Tradition Stamped with Love

Every Valentine’s Day, fond and funny valentines go out around the world in TikTok and email, on Facebook, by text, and in an instant on Instagram. It’s a cultural tradition.

Today, however, with so much shelter-in-place time on our hands, the old-fashioned handwritten Valentine’s card, the kind sealed with a stamp and a kiss, is loving its revival. Have a fun look at these tokens of love intercepted by OIC.


FROM: Beth Harmon of “The Queen’s Gambit”
TO: Her Chessboard

Like chess, the strategies of love are complex, but true masters bond with the chessboard and always find their queen, king, or knight in shining armor. And “The Queen’s Gambit” was strategic, too. It landed a spot on Netflix (nobody’s pawn) and was viewed by 62 million households in its first month.

Our love is here to play.

 


FROM: Zoom
TO: Over 300 Million Daily Meeting Participants

The secret of the Zoom success? Founder Eric Yuan credits the firm’s focus on delivering happiness and listening to what customers have to say. That’s the secret to any positive relationship.

We love you just the way you are.

 


TO: Supermarket Staff, Delivery Drivers, Farmworkers, Meatpackers, Educators, and All Our Essential Workers
FROM: The Global Community

Heart-shaped candy in a candy box on a valentine card, part of the cultural traditions of Valentine's Day. image © Bojsha65/iStock

We’re sweet on you. Happy Valentine’s Day from the top and bottom of our hearts. 

 


FROM: We the People
TO: Amanda Gorman, Who Was “Brave Enough to Be It” at the Biden Inauguration

Youth poet laureate Amanda Gorman, 23,  ended her poem “The Hill We Climb” with these words: The new dawn blooms as we free it / For there is always light, / if only we’re brave enough to see it / if only we’re brave enough to be it.

Valentine, you took my breath away! Happy day!

 


FROM: The Lovely Lady Daphne Bridgerton
TO: Simon, the Duke of Hastings

Roses are red. Violets are blue. My dear Simon, I burn for you. 

 


And now, feel a different kind of Bern…

TO: Bernie
FROM: The Meme Gods

We’re s-mitten! Happy Valentine’s Day.
Here’s to your warm heart (and even warmer hands). 

 


FROM: Accomplished Deer Hunter and Sun King, Louis XIV
TO: The Ladies of the Court

My deer, I only have eyes for you…and you…and you…and you…

 


TO: Apollo, God and Son of Zeus
FROM: Venus, Goddess of Love and Beauty

Theirs was a long-standing relationship in Nice, France. When the Fontaine du Soleil, created by French sculptor Alfred Janniot, was inaugurated in 1956, Apollo met Venus. The rest was history…but not without its blips. Here’s the full back story.

As lovers, our relationship was going nowhere, but I’ll always have your back.

 


TO: The Healthcare Community
FROM: All of Us Who Love Life

In 2020, the world experienced the courageous efforts of 59 million healthcare workers. Often without breaks and proper protection, they showed what it means to be Enamorado de la vida (In love with life).

My heart beats for you!

 


TO: Herd Immunity (after vaccination)
FROM: Those Who Miss Mingling (Ewe Know Who Ewe Are)

Oh, for the day when we can put our hearts together again!

 


FROM: Me
TO: My iPhone

I just can’t quit you.

 


FROM: Auguste Rodin
TO: Lovers Everywhere

French sculptor Auguste Rodin created “The Kiss” in 1882, sweet love contrasted with the rocky pedestal of life.

No fashion. Just passion this Valentine’s Day.

 


TO: The World’s Performing Artists
FROM: Everyone in Lockdown

Your show went on(line), but we miss you more than a thousand hands clapping. Sending you a standing ovation and all our love until we meet again.

 


FROM: OIC Moments
TO: All Our Readers

You light up our life! Keep looking on the bright side and Happy Valentine’s Day.

 


May fond and funny valentines, the handwritten kind filled with kisses and wishes, be at the heart of your cultural traditions this Valentine’s Day.  Oh, I see, the personal touch is always a heart’s delight!

♥♥♥

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Photo credits

Girl and chessboard: Meredith Mullins with chessboard from PxHere and border by Русский/Pixabay; Zoom screen, in order from top left to bottom right—1. Jerry Kimbrell/Pixabay, 2. valentinrussanov/iStock, 3. Yogendra Singh/Pixabay with background from Devanath/Pixabay, 4. fizkes/iStock, 5. adogslifephoto/iStock, 6. Phúc Må /Pixabay, 7. Ryan McGuire/Pixabay, 8. Gerd Altmann/Pixabay, 9. Sheron Long; candy hearts, Bojsha65/iStock; heart sun, Rony Michaud/Pixabay; roses, Sheron Long with pink flame from PxHere; cafe scene with restaurant exterior by FooTToo/iStock, roses by Mohamed Chermiti/Pixabay, and graffiti heart by Carola68/Pixabay; deer with glasses, Sheron Long; Apollo and Venus statues, Sheron Long; storefront in Madrid, Sheron Long; sheep herd, Sheron Long; text message, Sheron Long; Rodin’s “The Kiss,” Sheron Long with border by Mikhail Strogalev/iStock; empty theater, aerogondo/iStock; stoplight, Sheron Long.  

3D greeting card illustrations by PetrStransky/iStock (landscape) and Samohin/iStock (portrait).

In the Kitchen with OIC: A Fun Japanese Food Tour!

by Joyce McGreevy on February 2, 2021

Yuma Wada serves sushi in Tokyo, the setting for his Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

What could be fresher than sushi made from Japan’s catch of the day?
© Yada Wama/ Ninja Food Tours

Yuma Wada Turns Trivia into Virtual Travel to Tokyo

A funny thing happened on the way to Yuma Wada’s Japanese food tour and trivia night. You know how it is. One minute you’re folding the laundry or microwaving leftovers. Next minute you’re at a fish market in Tokyo.

Maybe I should explain.

Collectively speaking, it was an ordinary weeknight, work had stolen our weekend, the kids were restless, and supper smelled . . . uninspiring. We’d all been “at home” nearly 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for eleven long months.

We —me and several others from ages 9 to 65—needed a change of scene. Appetizing experiences and cultural insight. Creativity in good company. Something fun. (Remember fun?) And so, from coast to coast, country to country, we converged on Tokyo. Virtually, of course.

Shoppers stroll a scenic street in Tokyo, the setting for Yuma Wada’s online Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

A much-missed travel pleasure: exploring dream destinations on foot.
© Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours

“Honey? Just popping out to Japan. Back in an hour.”

There to greet us was Yuma Wada. Tokyo restaurateur, licensed sake sommelier, and self-trained sushi chef, Yuma is the founder of Ninja Food Tours.

“I grew up in a family that runs a traditional Japanese sweets factory, so food is something I cannot run away from,” he says.

While Yuma’s own journey started in Japan, he arrived at his calling by way of a background in corporate finance and extensive travels across Europe and the United States. He found other countries’ versions of Japanese food interesting—in a good way.

Sake is poured into a ceramic cup in Tokyo, the setting for Yuma Wada’s online Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

“Nihonshu wa ryori wo erabanai.” Highly versatile, “sake never fights with food.”
© Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours

Okay, there were occasional causes for bemusement. Like the “Japanese” restaurant in Wisconsin that served Korean and Thai food. Or the California bar that served “sake bombs,” shot glasses of sake tossed into beer, which was then knocked back for maximum ill effect. Not quite the Japanese custom of savoring a fine rice wine.

“When I saw that,” says Yuma diplomatically, “I was like, oh wow, this country is something different.”

Yet wherever he went (including Wisconsin), Yuma found that  people loved Japanese food and were somewhat familiar with its variety. Wouldn’t it be exciting to extend their range and provide the cultural context?

Oh, Tokyo!

Yuma returned home with a whole new purpose. He founded a tour company and brought other passionate foodies onboard. Together, they created a rich banquet of local experiences—guided walks, cooking classes, online food shows, blogs detailing hidden gems, and more.

Wada Yuma samples Japanese food with fellow Ninja Food Tours tour guides in Tokyo, the setting for his Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

Global locals: Yuma with fellow Ninjas Julia, Nathan, and Amanda.
Julia, un amante Giappone, (“fan of Japan”) grew up in Italy, Amanda in Quebec.
© Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours

Three years later, Ninja Food Tours was garnering top-ten ratings in a city that welcomed 15 million visitors a year. Ninja Food Tours drew visitors from around the world to Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka. Yuma’s work was being featured on CNN and other major news channels. Meanwhile, Japan had spent more than $25 billion on preparations for the Olympics.

Then the world went into lock-down.

So . .  . No Tokyo?

Today, most of us can’t visit our local Japanese restaurants, let alone Japan. So Yuma has come up with a clever way to bring Japan to us—a simple but surprisingly rich hour of virtual travel. Presented as a trivia quiz, it’s also:

  • a quest for culinary inspiration
  • a family-friendly tour
  • a delightful way to socialize
  • a primer for in-person travel to Japan

Unlike a travel documentary, it offers plenty of interaction. Unlike a cooking class, there’s no prep needed.  You’ll come away with a feast of insights into Japanese food, even if you already know your ikura from your izakaya.

Meet the New Chef—You!

The premise of the quiz is half the fun: You’re welcomed as a newly hired chef in Tokyo. As part of your culinary training, you tag along with a master chef who presents you with challenges. Together, you explore Japan’s biggest fish market, the city’s kitchenware capital, and more.

Ninja Food Tours tour guide Kaz displays a chef’s deba knife in Tokyo, the setting for Yuma Wada’s online Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

Your master chef (portrayed by Ninja guide Kaz) shares cutting-edge culinary skills.
© Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours

Now I can’t say too much, or I’d give away trivia-quiz answers. But what I can share is that the challenges are varied, creative, and instructive. The quiz is an icebreaker, fun to play with folks you know or folks you’ve just met. You can apply much of what you learn the next time you cook at home or order take-out.

Yuma Wada’s Sake Bar Doron is close to Shinjuku Station in Tokyo, in Tokyo, the setting for his online Japanese food tour and trivia night. (Image © by Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours)

One of my first stops in Tokyo will be Yuma’s restaurant, Sake Bar Doron.
© Yuma Wada/ Ninja Food Tours

Memories of Travels Past Future

Given my thwarted plans to visit Japan in 2020, I was surprised at what I gleaned from this Japanese food tour—virtual travel, for sure. In addition to expanding my culinary skills, I got my questions answered on everything from etiquette and edible gardening to locally-beloved, less touristed neighborhoods. Oh, I see: I now have good memories of a place I’ve not yet been. And the happy prospect of saying, “Kon’nichiwa, Yuma! It’s so nice to see you again.”

  • Yuma Wada is beta-testing a new Japanese Food Trivia Night. Join FREE—until February 5. Register here.
  • Join all live events—Japanese Food Trivia Night, here; Sake Class, here; Kitchenware Shopping in Kappabashi, here.
  • Follow Ninja Food Tours on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube.
  • Dining solo? Discover food-themed Japanese shows, here. (I love “Midnight Diner.”)

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SOS: Save Our Skeuomorphs!

by Joyce McGreevy on January 4, 2021

A smartphone on a sailboat contains a compass app, a skeuomorph that carries a cultural memory of an ancient invention, the nautical compass. (Photo by TheHilaryClark and Pixabay)

What smartphone app resembles a 12th century nautical tool? The answer’s due south!
TheHilaryClark/ Pixabay

Skeuomorphs “Net” Cultural Memory

As we sail into a new decade, a titanic debate continues to rock the boat from port to computer port. On one side, designers who’ve jettisoned skeuomorphs. On the other, those who are still on board with them.

Should skeuomorphs be set adrift? Or treasured because they’re anchored in cultural memory? What are skeuomorphs, anyway?

Someone holds up a digital tablet with a compass app, a skeuomorph that incorporates a cultural memory of an older compass. (Photo by TheHilaryClark and Pixabay)

Some designers dislike skeuomorphs’ ties to the past, as in this digital version
of a nautical compass.
Geralt/ Pixabay

Say, That Looks Familiar

Even if you’ve never heard of them, you know them. In computing, skeuomorphs are digital images that mimic older, physical objects. The nearest examples are probably on your cellphone:

  • a retro telephone handset (digital phone app)
  • a postage stamp (email program)
  • a manual camera with lens and shutter button (photo app)
  • a cassette tape, as invented in 1963 (audio-record app)
  • a 1970s style pocket calculator (faster, high-capacity calculator app)

I say “probably” because neoumorphists are working hand over fist to replace such apps.

“Neou-whatzits?” Neoumorphists. This group practices a design style that features minimalistic, one-dimensional flat shapes. Moreover, they prefer either solid colors or no color at all. In short, they create neuomorphs.

The term neuomorph is itself a kind of skeuomorph. It mimics the old word to convey the idea of the new word. Maybe that’s why some practitioners prefer the term “Flat Design.”

A Flat Design compass shows that, unlike skeuomorphs, neoumorphs preserve little cultural memory of the older, physical object. (Photo by Villareallevi)

Flat design took apps in a new direction.
Villarreallevi/ Pixabay

Skewing Away from Skeuomorphs

Why have flat-friendly designers given the heave-ho to skeuomorphs?

For starters, it’s been 35 years since Apple featured skeuomorphs on the first personal computer. Imagine seeing an icon of a floppy disk on the  device that made floppies obsolete. So why was it there? Because it made something new look comfortably old and familiar.

Like the cassette tape, floppy disks were physical objects manually inserted into a computer for the purposes of saving information. By contrast, the new computer required no disk. Instead, it showed a picture of one to help you transition into saving info digitally.

At the time, that seemed bold. It was a shot across the bow of cantankerous word processors. (I called mine “Old Ironsides.”)

However, to a young digital native, someone who’d never encountered a physical floppy disk, the digital image became the more real of the two. It evoked, not an object, but only an action: “save.”

Meanwhile, a new wave of designers, considered skeuomorphs clunky, their purpose lost at sea. Skeuomorphs were scraping the bottom of the barrel, they said. And they were not about to pipe down.

Gradually, the skeuomorph trend hit the doldrums. Mainstream designers, certain they’d keel over if they had to develop one more fake trashcan, file folder, or bookcase, began abandoning ship. They changed course, bound for the uncharted waters of start-ups.

By 2012, there was no stemming the tide.  To put it pictorially . . .

A speeding jet ski symbolizes how rapidly Flat Design apps, or neuoumorphs, overtook the popularity of skeuomorphs. (Photo by Herbert 2512 and Pixabay)

Flat Design went full steam ahead . . .
Herbert2512/ Pixabay

A man paddling a barrel in the water symbolizes how skeoumorph apps, with their cultural memory-based images of older physical objects, seemed clunky compared to Flat Design apps. (Image by Pxhere)

. . .  leaving skeuomorphs in its wake and over a barrel.

Ships Shapes that Pass in the Night?

Skeuomorphs were dead in the water, declared “Flat” fans. Old as the (Silicon Valley) hills. Some even claimed that before the Mac, skeuomorphism could not have existed, since there was no graphical interface.

Now wait just one oh I see moment: While not all skeuomorphs endure, skeuomorphism is no passing fad. It’s freighted with centuries of cultural memory.

Going Old-Skeu

The term skeuomorph was coined in 1889 when a scholar combined two Greek words—skeuos, meaning vessel or tool, and morphê, meaning shape or form. Archaeologists applied the term to ancient artifacts that carried “memories” of even older objects. Classic examples include:

  • ancient clay pottery from Zaire molded to resemble the straw that was used in earlier, woven containers
  • ancient Greek stone buildings that preserved the functions of their wooden precursors

In short, skeuomorphs were never just digital. That urge to imitate, to preserve, to artfully smuggle something older into the hull of something newer, has always been with us.

An antique coffeepot features skeuomorphic elements that reflect the cultural memory of woven vessels. (Image by Auckland Museum)

Vintage skeuomorph, this antique coffeepot looks woven and has “tree branch” handles.
Auckland Museum, CC BY 4.0 via Wikimedia Commons

Skeuomorphs Are Everywhere

Common household skeuomorphs include:

  • battery-operated or LED “candles”
  • window shutters that are purely decorative
  • shoes with ornamental buckles over functional Velcro fasteners
  • “wood-grain” laminate flooring
Lighting on a table includes skeoumorphic elements that preserve the cultural memory of older, physical objects, such as LED “candles” and a “wooden” plastic table. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

Unlike the wall, the “wooden” table is skeuomorphic. So are most of the “candles.”
© Joyce McGreevy

Skeuomorphism is roadworthy, too. For example, it includes:

  • Logos of horses on cars—visual reminders of “horsepower,” itself a verbal skeuomorph
  • The first trains and cars, modeled after horse-drawn carriages
  • Electric cars with front grilles. That’s utterly skeuomorphic. No internal combustion engine? No need for cooling air-intake!

Skeuomorphs go beyond the visual:

  • Taste: meatless burgers and tofu turkey
  • Texture: furniture in one material that imitates another material
  • Scent: air freshener imitating an “ocean breeze” or “lavender field”
Vintage cars feature skeoumorphic elements that preserve the cultural memory of horse-drawn carriages, such as wood paneled chassis and wheels with spokes. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

Cars with wood paneling and wheel spokes are . . .

Wagon wheels exemplify how skeuomorphic design embeds the cultural memory of older objects, such as wheel spokes, into newer objects, such as cars. (Image by British and Pixabay)

. . . skeuomorphic of old-fashioned wooden carriages.
Britlish/ Pixabay

Speaking of Skeuomorphs

There are, I think, echoes of skeuomorphism even in language. It’s in the way we knowingly or unknowingly imitate linguistic elements of the past.

That’s why, for the sake of experiment, I packed this post with vintage nautical terms, stem to stern. Did I go overboard? Aye, to prove a point: As old artifacts are “re-designed” for new users, the updated version retains vestiges of cultural memory. It’s as true of language as it is of technology.

So, even though you’re not an old-timey pirate, sea captain, boatswain, coxswain, rum smuggler, sea-shanty composer, or Viking explorer, every seaworthy idiom I used made sense to you. Like the digital native assigning new meaning to a graphical icon, you simply use it differently than its originators did.

That for me, is also the beauty of a skeuomorph. Be it digital or physical, visual or verbal, by intention or by-the-way, the best kind preserves cultural memory and takes on new meaning.

Don’t get me wrong. Flat Design has a vital role in language, too. If I need an ambulance, I’ll state my home address, not describe its architecture. I’m an idiom lover, not an idiot.

However, rather than choose one design style over another, I’ll navigate the best of each—the abstract and the pictorial, the streamlined and the layered. If neuomorphs make for plain sailing, skeuomorphs net cultural memory. Happily, there’s room onboard for both.

A smartphone screen whimsically depicting a 3-D figure navigating a body of water shows that apps like neoumorphs and skeuomorphs may one day only a cultural memory of old-school design. (Image by PixelLoverK3 and Pixabay)

What’s next in digital design? Wait and sea!
PixelLoverK3/ Pixabay

Did you spot all the nautical terms? Some are less obvious than others! Plumb their watery word depths, here and here.

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