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Vintage Paper Collecting: Fun and Finds

by Sheron Long on January 16, 2014

A collection of old valentines are part of the ephemera at a vintage paper fair. (Image © Sheron Long)

Which valentine will strike a chord in a collector’s heart?
© Sheron Long

The Lasting Connections of Ephemera

I have only a fleeting understanding of the word ephemera, perhaps because it means something short-lived. In the collecting world, it refers to antique and vintage paper products whose intended use was not long-lasting—

postcards and calendar pinups,

movie memorabilia,

ticket stubs and bridge tallies,

greeting cards and old photos,

 food and luggage labels,

concert handbills, and more.

And yet, families have stored away these items for years, even across generations. Collectors have preserved and enjoyed them, bought and sold them, donated them to museums, and thus extended their lives long past the intended use.

I found out why when I wandered into the recent Vintage Paper Fair in San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park. A respite from digital angst, the fair was filled with ephemera that encourages lasting connections.

Connecting with Fond Memories

When my photographer friend Erick Paraiso and I stepped inside this paper world, we stashed our electronics and wandered the welcoming aisles of vintage.

Woman searching through vintage postcards at a vintage paper fair where she is collecting ephemera. (Image © Erick Paraiso)

The postcard that triggers a fond memory has a good chance of catching a collector’s eye.
© Erick Paraiso

Pretty quickly, we were pawing through the bins of old postcards categorized topically from “Music” to “Mermaids” and geographically from “France” to the “Philippines.”

Erick is from the Philippines. I lost him somewhere on Aisle 2.

When he surfaced, he held two very special postcards. The first reminded him of the water buffalo (kalabaw or carabao) that gave him trouble as a kid: “I remember riding him without a saddle and falling down as the kalabaw gained speed.”

Vintage postcard, showing a water buffalo pulling a cart in the Philippines, at an ephemera collectors fair. (Photo of postcard © Erick Paraiso)

Images on old postcards can rekindle a childhood memory.
Photo of postcard © Erick Paraiso

The second postcard was an amazing find—a picture of the Basilica where his mother used to go in Manila. “I remember her taking me to this church when I was very young. She was a devout Catholic and prayed here, kneeling in the middle of the nave from the entrance to the front of the altar.”

Vintage postcard showing a Basilica in Manila, at a vintage paper fair for collectors of ephemera (Photo of the postcard © Erick Paraiso)

Postcards with a personal connection recall treasured times with family.
Photo of postcard © Erick Paraiso

Family connections. Childhood memories. The paper postcards became a tangible symbol of my friend’s ties to his personal past.

Connecting to Creative Inspiration

Who goes to a vintage paper fair besides wanderers like Erick and me? Collectors, of course, trying to add to their assortments of roosters and chickens, pin-ups, and horror movie posters.

Movie posters for sale as part of the ephemera being collected at a vintage paper fair.<br />(Photo of the posters © Sheron Long)

From ticket stubs to global movie posters, papers of every size grace an ephemera show.
Photo of posters © Sheron Long

These collectors may be in it for investment. More likely, they have found a passion, enjoy the fun of the quest, or collect as a way to show their individualism.

Box of old photos, or ephemera, available for collecting at a vintage paper show. (Photo of the photographs © Sheron Long)

A box of old photos holds treasures for an artist.
Photo of photos © Sheron Long

But artists come, too, in search of old greeting cards, labels and photos that find new life in their creative works.

Perhaps they are looking for Art Deco graphics with just the right colors or subject matter to make into modern-day greeting cards.

They may be selecting old photos with an interesting use of light or with intriguing people to incorporate into collages, mixed media, or sculptures of found objects.

One artist had chosen this photograph to include in a work on communication.

Old photograph, or ephemera, on sale for collectors at a vintage paper fair. (Photo of the photograph © Erick Paraiso)

Evidence of non-communication in the non-digital age intrigued
the artist who bought this photograph.
Photo of photo © Erick Paraiso

Photos of the past that are included in a modern-day work say something about continuity, and they reflect the artist’s sense of aesthetics. Ephemera, short-lived as it may be, lives long when an artist breathes new life into it. 

Connecting on Special Days

Those of us without collections or artistic talent can still profit from a visit to a vintage paper fair, especially when Valentine’s Day is just around the corner.

My practical search turns up a pull-down valentine at Margo Essman’s table. The valentine looks flat, but the bottom pulls down to make a stand, revealing amazing layers of artwork.

Valentine from a vintage paper fair for those collecting ephemera. (Image © Sheron Long)

Vintage valentines carry an age-old message that is always in style.
© Sheron Long

Margo told me the story of a customer who starts early to declare his love, giving his wife a vintage valentine on each of several days leading up to Valentine’s Day.

That sounds romantic, but I bought only one—as it says, it’s a token of love.

I love that the ephemera I chose has a little tear in it and that there is a message on the back from the person who gave it once before.

Happy with my find and the conversations I had had at the fair, I headed back into San Francisco’s wired world.

The fair was fun; the finds were good. But the greatest find was seeing the joy that comes from collecting and connecting. With family memories. With creative inspiration. With that special someone. Oh, I see—these connections, prompted by something so fleeting as ephemera, are longer-lasting than I had thought.

Open suitcase filled with ephemera for collecting at a vintage paper fair. (Image © Sheron Long)

Suitcase of connections.
© Sheron Long

See more examples of vintage postcards and visit the Oakland Library blog for fascinating ephemera left in books and collected by librarians over the years.

Collectors Weekly has good background on vintage papers and postcards. Schedules of Vintage Paper Fairs for 2014: East Coast, California.

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From Smart Dogs: 10 Lessons for a Happy Life

by Sheron Long on January 2, 2014

Dog laughing, illustrating how learning life lessons from dogs can lead to a happy life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Want a happy life in 2014? Ask a dog for advice.
© Dezi Grieg

Oh, I See. My Dog Taught Me!

Smart dogs can sit and stay. They can fetch and even speak on cue. But the lessons we humans give to our dogs in one-syllable commands fall way short of the rich life lessons we get in return.

Oh, I See Moments found that out when we asked dog owners to tell us the lessons they’ve learned from their smart, funny, loving and lovable pups.

The lessons go well-beyond “turn around three times before you plop down” to offer great advice on making a happy life. May these life lessons from dogs unleash happy times for you in 2014!

1. Do What Makes You Happy.

Dezi Greig’s dogs Titan and Odin taught Dezi a thing or two about happiness.

Dog running enthusiastically through a field, illustrating life lessons from dogs on doing what makes you happy in life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Life off-leash for Titan is life lived to the fullest.
© Dezi Greig

Of the energetic Titan, Dezi says:

Titan taught me to play hard, sleep in, smile big, love more, forgive and forget. Thanks, buddy!

Greig caught the oversized Odin in an oversized chair. A happy moment, a perfect fit. What was Greig’s take-away from his pooch?

Be goofy, yell if you feel like it, if it makes you happy just do it, bite the vet.

Large dog asleep in chair, illustrating life lessons from dogs on doing what makes you happy in life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Big ole Odin knew how to do exactly what made him happy.
© Dezi Greig

2. Poke Your Nose into Adventure.

How can you figure out what makes you happy if you don’t partake of life?

Dog in profile with gleam in his eye, life lessons from dogs on pursuing adventure to make a happy life. (Image © Rudy Martinez)

With a gleam in his eye, Dexter is always looking
for the next adventure!
© Rudy Martinez

Comedian Rudy Martinez learned about that from his dog Dexter:

Dexter taught me that frogs are not to be ingested, golfers are evil, that big dogs are chew toys with legs, and most importantly that dogs love a good dance party as much as anyone. 

When it comes to life’s adventures, some are good and some are bad, but all count for something.

3. Live in the Moment.

When water presents itself, Lee McMullan’s dog loves to splash through it, causing Lee to develop this strategy for living in the moment:

Don’t worry, you’ll dry. 

Dog splashing through water, illustrating life lessons from dogs on living in the moment to make a happy life. (Image © Lee McMullan)

Get your paws wet! This moment may not come around again.
© Lee McMullan

4. Share Time and Treats with Friends.

From her dog Luna, Malory Mildenberger learned the best kind of treats to offer a friend:

An over-abundance of exuberance, smiles, energy, a shoulder to lean on, a paw to extend in aid, a tail that never stops wagging, eyes brighter than the sun, a thick coat for when things get a bit rough, a ball to share, and kisses to heal wounds that are either physical or psychological. 

Dog on bed whose behavior has life lessons for people on how to keep good friends close and have a happy life. (Image © Malory Mildenberger)

Behind Luna’s wise eyes are
the secrets for keeping good friends.
© Malory Mildenberger

5. Stay Curious.

What does the underside of a cow chin look like? My dog, Chula the Sheltie, just had to know. She was always curious, perhaps because she traveled between California and France and relished seeing new things.

Dog nuzzling a large plastic cow, illustrating life lessons for people on staying curious. (Image © Sheron Long)

“Pardonnez-moi,” says Chula, “I’m a little curious about your chin.”
© Sheron Long

Her curiosity took her under the food tables at the big Provencal markets, through lavender fields, down Paris streets and into butcher shops. Chula shared her French adventures from her dog’s-eye view in our book Dog Trots Globe

Her curiosity inspired me—she taught me to  sniff around and see what I could see, to sniff out fun things to do and learn. And she did everything with that wonderful Sheltie smile.

6. Pursue Your Passion.

Katrina Brooks tried to teach her pooch Max that “patience is a virtue,” but it may not be when it comes to pursuing your passion.

Dog going after food, illustrating life lessons from dogs on pursuing a passion to make a happy life. (Image © Katrina Brooks)

Max knows. Pursuing a passion can take focus and speed.
© Katrina Brooks

7. Make the Most of Every Day.

Alisha Rea was there the day her first puppy Banner was born. She describes how she literally saved the life of her best friend:

When Banner was delivered, she was lifeless and still. I began to cry and accept the fact that she was dead. My mother rubbed her all over and gave her mouth-to-mouth. I continued as my mom ran in the house for a warm cloth. Out of nowhere, I felt movement—it was so magical! I had brought her back and watched her take her first breath. That was 13 years ago. 

Smiling dog, illustrating life lessons from dogs on appreciating life. (Image © Alishia Rea)

Banner and her owner Alisha love their life together.
© Alishia Rea

Banner and Alisha grew up together. They have been a team, herding sheep, showing in 4-H, visiting nursing homes. Their bond has taught Alisha to:

Live every day as if it were my last, cherish my friends, smile over the little things, and have patience even when all seems lost. 

8. Learn New Tricks.

If you want to get out of a rut in 2014, take a lesson from Lia. This surfer dog will tell you that practice has a payoff.

Surfer dog, illustrating life lessons from dogs on learning new tricks to make a happy life. (Image © Agi Cortez)

If every doggie had an ocean, would she learn new tricks?
© Agi Cortez

Her owner Agi Cortez explains how Lia learned to surf:

Since puppydom, Lia has always preferred to sit on the center console in the car, refusing to ever take the back seat. This summer, she showed us what she’s spent years developing—her balance!

9. Be Just Who You Are.

Terina Stewart’s BFF has his own style.

Dog in sunglasses, illustrating life lessons from dogs on being yourself to make a happy life. (Image © Terina Stewart)

A big guy with style
© Terina Stewart

He likes himself and the way he looks, the one essential for loving someone else. And clearly he loves Terina. She says:

Even though he is big, he still likes to climb on my lap and cuddle.

10. Love and Be Loved Without Expectations.

Abandoned and full of drool, dirt, and mats, Thor was wandering down a highway when Kirsten Brand found him. It took Kirsten weeks to clean him up and months to heal his scars.

Now a year later, Thor has fallen in love with his forever family, protecting them seriously and loving them with all his heart. What did Thor teach Kirsten?

He taught me that when you truly and fully put into a relationship, you will get back more than you ever thought you could.

White dog with a smile, illustrating life lessons from dogs on how unconditional love leads to a happy life. (Image © Kirsten Brand)

Unconditional love is a two-way street
in Thor’s forever home.
© Kirsten Brand

 

To see even more of these remarkable canine-inspired life lessons, download the free ebook:

Oh I See! Mt Dog Taught Me - Free eBook Download

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Culture Smart: Wrap a Gift and Don’t Forget the Feather

by Sheron Long on December 8, 2013

Swan standing on planet Earth, representing a Chinese gift giving legend. Image © Denis Zaporozhtsev / Hemera.

China’s swan feather legend is a gift to the world.
© Denis Zaporozhtsev / Hemera

In Chinese tradition, the legend of the swan feather dates to the Tang Dynasty (618-906 CE) and is still relevant today, especially during this gift-giving season.

According to legend,  a local official in a far-away vassal state asked Mian Bogao to take two swans to the emperor as a gift. Such gift-giving was customary to show respect to the emperor, and swans (rarely found in China) were the most precious of gifts.

Swan feather, symbolizing gift giving with sincerity and respect in Chinese tradition. Image © Lendy 16 / iStock.

A single swan feather sends a significant message.
© Lendy 16 / iStock

Mian set out on the long journey. As he neared his destination, he stopped by a lake to wash the swans. Freed from their cage, however, the two swans escaped and left only a feather behind.

Though Mian had now lost the precious gift for the emperor, he knew he had to complete his mission. He wrapped the swan feather in a white silk cloth and wrote a poem (as translated by CozyChinese.com):

千里送鵝毛 (qiān lǐ sòng é máo)—A swan’s feather from a thousand miles away
禮輕情意重 (lǐ qīng qíng yì zhòng)—An insignificant gift, with it the sincere wishes of the sender.

When Mian arrived at the palace, he watched as others offered jewelry and great riches to the emperor. When his turn came, he presented his simple gift and explained his story. And the emperor, impressed with Mian’s honesty and diligence to complete his mission, rewarded him greatly.

From this legend came a Chinese saying about walking a thousand miles and presenting a swan feather as a gift. It recognizes the value of the thought and sincerity behind a gift over its cost.

Today, you can honor this Chinese tradition and show sincere sentiments to your friends—just add a beautiful feather to their gifts.

Present tied up with feathers in the bow, showing a Chinese tradition in which a feather symbolizes gift-giving with great sincerity and respect. Image © Studio-Annika / iStock

A feather on a gift is such a thoughtful touch!
© Studio-Annika / iStock

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