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Wanderlust in Waiting

by Joyce McGreevy on June 29, 2020

People walking in Piazza Trento e Trieste, Ferrara, Italy, a vibrant place recommended for a visit in the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Have you had to walk back your travel plans?
Above: Piazza Trento e Triste, Ferrara, Italy.
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Travel Planning Tips for Italy (& Other “Delayed Gratification” Destinations)

You can take the girl out of the travel, but you can’t take the travel out of the girl. Like many people today, I’ve put international travel plans on pause, but that hasn’t changed my love of journeys. My wanderlust for Italy is simply waiting in the wings.

Make that on the wings, whether those of a spacious Dreamliner or a petite Britten Norman Islander, a plane so small you basically wear it.

Perhaps you, too, have postponed overseas travel for a year. Or two. However long it takes for a vaccine to be developed and your dream destination to re-open its borders.  If so, consider planning a “delayed gratification” vacation.

Why plan now for a trip that may be far off in the future? Firstly, science has proven that the pleasure of anticipation benefits your brain. Secondly, time in abundance presents unique opportunities to enrich your travel experience.

Here are a few of my favorite plan-ahead (way ahead!) strategies. Mine are travel planning tips for Italy, but the general approach works for almost anywhere.

A food market stall in Bologna inspires wanderlust for Italy and is part of the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © by Carolyn McGreevy)

A food stall in Bologna, Italy offers an abundance of choices.
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Educate Your Taste Buds

If your experience of Italian cuisine is based outside of Italy, then the real thing will surprise you. Surprises are good, but first-time visitors are often so flummoxed by unfamiliar dishes that they end up sticking to what they already know. What’s the fun of that?

Several varieties of cookies, pasta, and sandwiches in Mantova, illustrating why learning about the regional food is part of the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

But which ravioli, biscotti, or panini? There are hundreds of varieties.
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Instead, make tasty test-runs before you go. The culinary gems I’ve found online include illustrated and in-depth guides to food by region, online cooking courses, recipes, and interactive food maps. For links to these and other great travel resources cited in this post, download “Italy Online,” our free travel planning tips for you (see link at end of post).

A gelato shop in Italy inspires wanderlust for Italy and illustrates why learning about Italian cuisine is part of the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © by Carolyn McGreevy)

Sweetest pre-travel homework ever: researching Italian gelato flavors.
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Conquer Tricky Details Before You Go

Ladies and gentlemen, signore e signori, I proudly present . . .la logistica! OK, even in Italian, “logistics” isn’t as appealing as la spontaneità. Yet thinking through trickier aspects of travel in advance will free you to be more spontaneous.

Case in point: Arriving in Milan, you head to the train station, a head-spinning hive of hyperactivity that makes utterly no sense to the uninitiated. By the time you’ve cracked the intricacies of buying tickets, finding the platform, validating tickets, and decoding the Italian for train class, carriage, compartment, and seat . . .you’ve gotten on the wrong train anyway and are hurtling back toward the airport. Enjoy your jet lag!

You know what’s more fun?

  • Relaxing at home with a multimedia guide to trains that walks you through the process.
  • Finding an app that makes it easy to buy train tickets worldwide.
  • Knowing all you’ll have to do is board, sit back, and enjoy the scenery.
  • Celebrating—spontaneously—because you found a nonstop train with elegant carriages and services. At a discount. Evviva la logistica!
Evening in Comacchio, Emilia Romagna, awakens wanderlust for Italy and is a place recommended for visit in the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Careful prep makes for carefree travel to places most overseas
tourists miss, like Comacchio.
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Take Time to Amass Travel Treasures

Official tourism sites often offer a range of free goodies. For instance, I’ve found maps, screen savers, audio guides, calendars, recipes, language lessons, and even virtual reality tours.

While you’re at it, stop by your local library to gather a stack of books. From travel books that you can spread out across the coffee table and leaf through while sipping your favorite Italian beverage, to novels and nonfiction that will transport you to Italy from your sofa.

Far from spoiling the thrill of discovery, getting lost in a good book makes it even more fun to get lost in the actual country, because it illuminates aspects of place that pique one’s desire to know more.

A visitor photographing one of the many gardens in Italy recommended for a visit in the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

Italy’s many hidden gardens are a great reason to do some advance travel research.
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Get Comfortable with Another Language

My obsession with language-learning began as a teenager in Milan. I can no more resist language lessons than I can resist Italian food. It’s not about mastery—in some countries, I speak like a kindergartener—but about experiencing places at a more intimate level. But give me a week and I’ll at least do a crash course. Now imagine what you can do with several months.

Convinced you’re too busy? Start by setting the bar low. “Phrase a Day” calendar? Perfetto!  Five-minute podcasts of “Coffee Break Italian”? Va bene! Ten minutes a day with an app? Le possibilità sono infinite!

Eventually you’ll wade in deeper. Meanwhile, you’ll be amazed at the big difference a little learning can make. The secret is to make it sustainable over time.

A young author in Italy showing off her first published book illustrates why an important travel planning tip for Italy is to learn some Italian before you travel. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

Reason #738 to learn Italian: In line for a bus, you meet a young historian
who’s just published her first book.
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Save for Travel the Easy Way

Even at home, “travel” is part of my budget. To make saving painless, I automate it using an app or online banking program. This lets me stash a specific amount each week or round up to the nearest dollar with each transaction.

Because I “set it and forget it,” I’m used to living on less. On a tight budget each amount is small, but over time a little becomes a lot.

A sign in Italian advertising a half-price sale in Ferrara, illustrating why an important travel planning tip for Italy is to learn some Italian before you go. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

“Final Days–Everything Half Price.” Saving for travel offers multiple rewards.
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Explore the Cultural Scene—Online

It’s never been easier to access the world’s great museums and popular media. I often tune into online radio stations from Italy. Do I understand every commentary or lyric? Heck no, but the ambient sound alone evokes a rich sense of place.

While Italian movies have long been available worldwide, Italian TV programs are harder to find. MHz Choice and public libraries are your best bets, and some cable companies will add Italian channels to your line-up.

Should you bother? Consider this vignette from the Olden Days before Internet.

On an extended visit to Italy as a single mom, I and my then 13-year-old son fell in love with an Italian miniseries—about a single mom and her 13-year-old son. Every Tuesday, we’d make supper with fresh ingredients from the Mercato Centrale. Then we’d watch L’avvocato delle donne (“Lawyer for Women”). Filmed on scenic locations, the series inspired many side trips—to the Byzantine mosaics of Ravenna, the Trastevere district of Rome, and more.

Even a frivolous show boosted our conversational skills. In Colpe de Fulimine, (literally “thunderbolt,” the Italian expression for “love at first sight”), a roving host pulled two young strangers off the street and got them talking. While the responses were as varied as the individuals, the conversational framework stayed the same, making it easy to learn authentic Italian expressions.

A view of the rooftops of Rome inspires wanderlust for Italy and illustrates why Rome is a recommended destination in the author's travel planning tips for Italy. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

After a stroll through the Trastevere, relax in the Roman sun-glow.
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The Joy of . . .Travel Delays?

For now, my wanderlust for Italy (and a dozen other destinations!) will have to wait. Yet, following my own travel planning tips for Italy while I wait to travel will only deepen the excitement of my eventual journey. In other words, don’t let the need to postpone travel dishearten you. Instead, make the most of having added time to plan a trip to Italy, or wherever your wanderlust calls you.

Oh, I see:  When life puts your travel plans on hold, turn “wanderlust in waiting” into a travel advantage.

A stone window in Ferrara, Italy reminds the author that wanderlust for Italy and a well-organized travel plan for a trip to Italy can inspire a whole new perspective on the world. (Image © by Joyce McGreevy)

Taking the long view can enrich your perspective.
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On a Wing and a Dare

by Joyce McGreevy on June 15, 2020

A flight attendant and a passenger keeping an air travel diary during the pandemic wear face masks to prevent the spread of the coronavirus. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Planes are flying again, but are passengers?
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An Air Traveler’s Diary in the Pandemic

 I love flying. As a pilot’s daughter, I’ve always felt at home in the sky. But airline travel in a pandemic? Opening my travel diary, I scrawl something I’ve never felt before: I dread the airport.

Ballyshane, Ireland

When the world went into lockdown, I was pet-sitting in Ireland. I had a guest cottage, the solitude writers crave, and nature’s beauty. Who’d leave that to fly on a wing and a dare?

But I missed my family, which had grown by three since I’d left the U.S.

It was time to return.

**

Before COVID-19, planning travel between countries was as easy as when Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz clicked her ruby-shod heels together. A few taps on an app and you were good to go.

But as travel restrictions spread globally, the number of flights per day plummeted—an 84% decrease in Europe alone. In North America, falloff was even greater. By April, some airlines were flying 97% fewer passengers than usual.

A lone airline passenger waits in the boarding area of an international airport during the pandemic. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

By April, Irish air travel had collapsed 90 percent due to COVID-19 restrictions.
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Ready for Takeoff?

Hey, that was easy, I think after booking two nonstop flights from Ireland to Oregon. Two cancellations and several phone calls later, I face four flights, five airports, four bus rides, and two hotel stays.

**

Cork, Hour 1

Ireland’s national bus system leaves nothing to chance.  The 60-seat bus to Dublin Airport has room for just 14. All other seats have been blocked off.

Seats on a bus in Ireland are blocked off during the pandemic to prevent the spread of the coronavirus. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Bus passengers are seated one per row, every other row.
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Meanwhile, there’s bad news for riders collecting loved ones at the airport. Air travelers arriving from other countries, citizens or not, are prohibited from taking the bus until they’ve self-quarantined.

“They must go straight home and stay home for 14 days,” stresses the driver.

“But how will they get there?” asks a passenger.

Good question.

Dublin, Hour 8

Reduced schedules necessitate arriving the day before my flight. At Dublin Airport there are no people, no shuttles. To access the hotel, I walk across six lanes of highway. There are no cars.

But all is not post-apocalyptic.

Amid the industrial landscape, a meadow blooms and so does an “Oh, I see” moment: Even when the destination is what drives you, there will be moments to appreciate along the way.

A meadow at Dublin Airport during the pandemic offers a moment of respite worth noting in on air traveler’s diary. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Flowers outnumber flyers at the once-busy airport.
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From habit, I check in three hours early. After clearing multiple security checkpoints, this leaves . . . about three hours to wait.

Airline check-in kiosks at Dublin International Airport during the pandemic stand idle, as the author contemplates flying “on a wing and dare.” (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

At Dublin Airport, kiosks stand idle.
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How strange to board a spacious airbus with only a few others. My nearest fellow passenger is seven rows and two aisles away.  Stranger still not to hear the multilingual murmur of global travelers.

I assume the Aer Lingus crew will treat us warily, but they’re cordial as always.

“We’re thrilled to be working again,” says the flight supervisor.

Between Irish hospitality and the blue horizon, eight hours in the air pass quickly.

Chicago, Hour 33

At O’Hare a customs officer questions me about a list of “forbidden” countries. Have I visited Iran? Iraq? What about China?

“No, but I’d like to someday” turns out not to be the correct answer.

“Ma’am, just say yes or no.”

People with the Center for Disease Control ask me similar questions, take my temperature, and send me on my way.

“That’s it?” I ask, relieved and alarmed all at once.

“That’s it.”

**

In Chicago, where I once lived, I call a friend and we muse about the strangeness of not meeting up.

“How many flights do you have left?”

“One more—”

“That’s good.”

“—today, that is. Two more tomorrow.”

“Yikes. Thank goodness they’re practically empty.”

“Yes, United’s blocking seats.”

“All the middle seats, right?”

**

On the flight to Los Angeles, United blocks a total of two seats. The crew passes out boxes of snacks “pre-wrapped for safety.”  Many passengers then spend the flight with masks dangling under chins, chomping vigorously.

With gratitude for inflight HEPA filters, I add layers of protective gear: goggles, mask, latex gloves, headphones, voluminous shawl. By the time the packed flight lumbers into the air, I look like a mannequin that has been fabric-wrapped by Christo and Jeanne-Claude.

Normally, my cure for anxiety is deep breathing. Under the circumstances, I opt for non-respiratory therapy—gazing at calming images on my phone:

Photos of Irish terriers have a calming effect on an anxious air traveler who’s flying “on a wing and prayer” during the pandemic, as noted in her travel diary. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Keep calm and carry on photos: focusing on Irish pet-sit pals, Molly and Rosie.
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This works until the captain mentions that our plane has 367,000 working parts, which he plans to “drive like a rental car.”

I land at LAX one hour early and many decades older.

Los Angeles, Hour 42

That night I fill my travel diary with reasons to be grateful:

  • My suitcase is still with me.
  • I know the friendly hotel staff from previous stays.
  • The takeout food  actually tastes like food.

But that isn’t all.

Everywhere I’ve been—from bus seat to airplane cabin, from hotel bedrooms, with their countless contact points, to airport restrooms with innumerable surfaces—everything has been thoroughly disinfected.

That cleanliness hasn’t happened by magic.

Every day despite the pandemic, someone’s mother or father wakes in the dark, commutes long distances, and works hard to keep public spaces safe.

Then it hits me, in a blinding flash of the obvious: A smile, a thank you, a tip is not enough.  To live a healthy life while maintaining the health of others, essential workers need living wages.

Seattle, Hour 54

Next morning I fly north, then backtrack south. Despite fewer flights, LAX and SEA-TAC look surprisingly busy.

Alaska Airlines sets a high standard for safety, limiting ticket sales and spacing passengers apart. Their terminal alone provides ample visual and verbal reminders to maintain social distance.

A floor marker at Alaska Airlines terminal in Los Angeles, as noted in an air traveler’s diary, reminds passengers to practice social distancing during the pandemic. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Floor markers prevent packed lines.
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This is no small thing. In all four U.S airports, wherever cues are lacking, travelers fall back into old habits.

In Seattle, for instance, food stands have been painstakingly modified for safety, but not communal tables. So while a few diners seek out isolated areas, most cluster together.  When you’re tired or distracted, it’s easy to forget.

The Cascade Mountains let an air traveler newly returned to Bend, Oregon breathe fresh air, as noted in her diary of flying “on a wing and d dare” during the pandemic. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

Enjoying the view of Oregon’s Cascade Mountain Range.
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Bend, Oregon

Three weeks later, my sister Erin and I hike forested trails in brisk mountain air. After months of living on the Irish coast, I’m acclimating to high-altitude breathing.

Will I travel by air again? Absolutely . . . someday. For now, moving into an apartment near family—after five years of living out of a suitcase—is all the travel adventure I need.

**

If you’re flying soon, try these tips:

  • Be flexible. With passenger numbers low, itinerary changes are more common. Example: You book a 2pm nonstop, which gets cancelled, and the airline re-books you on connecting flights with a 7am departure. Request more options or a refund, but know that all airlines’ schedules are in flux.
  • Stay current. The TSA allows up to 12 ounces of liquid hand sanitizer per passenger in carry-on bags.
  • Be self-regulating. Only one stop on my itinerary  modified the use of elevators for social distancing. Elsewhere, customers crammed into elevators, onto escalators, and other areas without signage. Be attentive and take your time.
  • Seat yourself. With fewer flights, some airlines are packing, not blocking, seats. Most economy sections feature a few rows with two seats only, including the roomier bulkhead. Some carriers  offer single-seat rows. For more space, make a modest bid to upgrade. With fewer passengers competing, your chances of success are good.
  • Keep a travel diary. At a minimum, use your phone or tablet to organize a digital file of important information on flights, insurance, hotel, and ground transportation.
  • Notice positives. The best stress reducer is acknowledging the essential workers who are doing their best to ensure your travel goes smoothly—even as they are impacted by the weaker economy and pandemic-related changes to airport procedures. They, too, are traveling on a wing and a dare.

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Cultural Sayings or Quarantine Quotes?

by Joyce McGreevy on May 26, 2020

A gate in Istanbul evokes the Turkish proverb, "Kind words can unlock an iron door,” a reminder that in the context of the pandemic, cultural sayings have take on a new relevance as quarantine quotes. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“Kind words can unlock an iron door.”—Turkish proverb
By doing our best for one another, we’ll get through this.
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Old Proverbs Help Us Cope with the Pandemic

Anonymous, that endless font of wisdom, once said, “There cannot be a crisis next week.  My schedule is already full.”  This contemporary proverb appears in busy workplaces and hectic households, wherever humans gamely endeavor to keep life on track—even in crisis.

Anyone experienced a crisis lately? A calamity that’s disrupted your schedule for months? Raise your hand. Oh my, 7.8 billion of you? I thought it was just me.

A global health crisis calls for worldwide wisdom, so this week OIC Moments presents the best cultural sayings and quarantine quotes for the occasion. Oh, I see: In the context of the pandemic’s social distancing, old proverbs from around the world have taken on a whole new relevance .

A public mural evokes the Greek proverb, “What is a city but its people?”, a cultural saying that has new poignancy as a quarantine quote during the pandemic lockdown. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“What is a city but its people?” —Greek saying. The virus turned our world inside out.
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What, We Worry?

We humans are wired for worry. As the Swedish say, “Worry often gives a small thing a great shadow.” This actually underscores our amazing ability to adapt. Think about it. Here we all are, undergoing a pandemic, yet we still find time to worry that we’re never going to lose those ten pounds or that Costco will run out of toilet paper.

Why? Because our brains are designed to give us a break by shifting our focus now and then from major to minor matters. As the Lebanese say, “Sometimes forgetting trouble is the best way of curing it.”

Perhaps our smaller, sillier moments help us cope with life’s more sobering challenges. Even as coronavirus casts a giant shadow, we humans  somehow manage the day-to-day. As the Maori say, “Turn your face toward the sun and the shadows will fall behind.”

An old saying from Kazakhstan translates into, “I see the sun on your back.”  This means, “Thank you for being you—I’m alive because of your help.” In the context of the pandemic, it beautifully encapsulates our  gratitude for doctors, nurses, and other essential workers.

A man in PPE evokes the Australian proverb, "Heavy givers are light complainers,” a cultural saying turned quarantine quote because it now applies to brave medical responders and other essential workers during the pandemic. Image by Pixabay/Fernando Zhiminaicela

“Heavy givers are light complainers.”—Australian saying
Image by Pixabay/Fernando Zhiminaicela

Comfort Across Cultures

A recurring phrase in different languages, cultures, and eras is These are challenging times. Spoiler alert: Humans have always lived in challenging times.  No history book declares, “And for the next 100 years, folks just went about their business, occasionally pausing for cups of tea.”

Thus all cultures speak of comfort in sayings that are as timely as ever. In Uganda, “Even the mightiest eagle comes down to the treetops to rest.”  In Morocco, “Reading books removes sorrow from the heart.”  In Scotland, “Whisky may not cure the common cold, but it fails more agreeably than most other things.”

According to American folk wisdom, “Trouble knocks at the door, but, hearing laughter, hurries away.” During the pandemic, an outpouring of highly creative humor online has lightened our heavy hearts. Meanwhile, an old saying from India—”A heart at rest sees a feast in everything”—gains new meaning as people find heart’s ease through everything from online meditation to families dining together via Zoom.

Music has also comforted the world during this time, reminding us that “If you can move, you can dance, and if you can speak you can sing.” (Zimbabwean proverb) Creating music “alone together” online has inspired our resourcefulness, proving that “One string is good enough to a good musician.” (Mexican proverb)

A finch in a tree evokes the Chinese proverb, "Make your heart a green tree, and a singing bird may come,” a cultural saying that has a taken on new relevance as a quarantine quote about hope and patience during the pandemic’s lockdown. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“Make your heart a green tree, and a singing bird may come.”—Chinese proverb
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When Lockdown Leads to Locked Horns

We’ve all become close during lockdown. Very.Very. Close. Wherever two or more humans interact, misunderstandings occur. Severe stress makes smart people say and do Stupid Stuff.  As Japanese wisdom reminds us, “Even monkeys fall from trees.”  Fortunately, we can improve: “By trying often, the monkey learns to jump from the tree.” (Proverb of Cameroon)

When nerves are frayed, we may imagine that Everything Is Another’s Fault. Yet ancient Romans said, It’s silly to try to escape people’s faults. Just try to escape your own.” To quote a Tagalog proverb, “The rattan basket criticizes the palm leaf basket, yet both are full of holes.”

Chickens sharing a perch in a henhouse evoke the humorous side of cultural sayings like “There’s no place like home” and “The more the merrier,” which now seem like quarantine quotes for families "cooped up" in the pandemic lockdown. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“There’s no place like home” takes on new meaning after months in lockdown.
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Old Wisdom and New Breakthroughs

What was your favorite subject in school? Regardless, we’re all rapt students of science now. Here, too, old sayings gain new relevance. On the news we see medical experts humbly acknowledging their limits while striving to achieve breakthroughs. They would appreciate the Nez Perce saying, “Every animal knows more than we do.”

Crises also bring out those whose genius is self-proclaimed. But as a South African proverb points out, “No one is great just because he says he is.” Instead, we’re discovering that greatness is rooted in kindness. As an Irish proverb affirms, “A kind word never broke anyone’s mouth.”

A baby chimp clinging to its mother evokes the British proverb, "Two thirds of help is to give courage,” a cultural saying that now seems like a quarantine quote about offering empathy and support during the pandemic. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“Two thirds of help is to give courage.”—British saying. We’re learning empathy.
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Timeless Wisdom for Timely Action

Old wisdom tells us it’s time to “Do good and care not to whom” (Italy). Time to support all who are vulnerable, to remember that “A child is a child of everyone” (Sudan). Time to “Be a mountain or lean on one” (Somalia). It’s time, not to seek credit, but to “Do a good deed and throw it in the sea” (Egypt).

Two people in raincoats crossing a footbridge in a downpour evoke the Brazilian proverb, "Good will makes the road shorter,” a cultural saying that now reads as a quarantine quote about the need to protect and respect each other during the Covid pandemic. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

“Good will makes the road shorter” (Brazil). We’re learning to respect and protect each other.
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The Danish have a saying: “He who comforts never has a headache.” In giving selflessly, we gain our humanity.  And if you think you’re too small to make a difference, says one African proverb, then you haven’t spent a night with a mosquito.  We can each do something.

For example, a Russian proverb advises, “Do not have 100 rubles, rather have 100 friends.” Millions of people have been economically impacted by the pandemic, yet countless social-media friends have pooled small donations into major support, sending it wherever needs are greatest. As a native Hawaiian proverb explains, “No task is too big when done together by all.”

Cultural sayings endure for good reason. When current events overwhelm us, old sayings help us find perspective. And so, at a time when both social distancing and connection are called for, this Tuareg proverb might just be the perfect quarantine quote: “Keep your tents apart and your hearts together.”

A mural of a heart on a city wall carries the proverb, “Love thy neighbor,” a cultural saying that is also an apt quarantine quote in the context of the Covid pandemic’s social distancing. (Image © Joyce McGreevy)

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What new or old saying helps you “keep calm and carry on”?

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