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by Your friends at OIC on October 29, 2018

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No tricks, just treats, as we invite you to take a look at some of our favorite Halloween-inspired posts from the past.

 

Halloween Traditions: Spooks, Saints, and Souls

Cultural traditions abound at this time of year, when Halloween, All Saints’ Day, and All Souls’ Day converge. Wherever you land on the globe, you’ll find a melange of traditions—religious and cultural—that invite ghosts and goblins, honor saints, or pay respect to the dead during one or all of these three days. Go to the post.

 

Picture-Perfect Pumpkin Carving

Two Brooklyn-based childhood friends pause their 11-month art careers to spend every day in October working until early into the morning carving, cutting, and hollowing out hundreds of orange gourds as part of their seasonal business. This post also includes a free download of pumpkin carving tips! Go to the post.

 

Aha Moment: Halloween!

Halloween—It’s an ancient tradition that’s as new as this season’s marketing trends, and its popularity around the world is soaring. An agile shapeshifter, Halloween both adapts to and changes the way cultures celebrate. Go to the post.

 

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Travel Tip: Savvy Travelers Hire Tour Guides

by Joyce McGreevy on October 23, 2018

A tour guide with travelers in Athens, Greece provides the cultural context that elevates travel into a life-changing experience. Image © Joyce McGreevy

In Athens, tour guide Constantin Kalafakakos decodes an array
of native herbs and their traditional uses.
© Joyce McGreevy

It’s All About Cultural Context

Who needs a tour guide?  Today 48-59% of U.S., European, and Asian smartphone users research and plan their entire trip to a new destination using only a mobile device. “I get all the travel tips I need online for free” is standard operating procedure.

Trouble is, the top research sites comprise brief impressions by first-time, short-term visitors—folks who arrived a few weeks before you.

So, who needs a tour guide? Travelers who value cultural context, accuracy, and certified training. Today’s tour guide typically has a degree in a specialized field, ranging from culinary or visual arts and history to environmental science.

A hand tracing a route on a map suggests how local guides provide cultural context and elevates travel into a life-changing experience. Image © Keven A. Seaver

You know where you’re going; a great local guide knows why it matters.
© Keven A. Seaver

Oh, I see: A private local tour guide can make the world of difference.

Beyond the Scenic

In Bruges, Belgium, tour guides Filip Bil and Annemieke Demuynck gave me insights into language, economic history, culinary traditions, and artistic innovation—all conveyed with humor and depth. They revealed a city that has vastly more to offer than pretty backdrops for selfies.

They also shared insights only locals know: What time a popular (read “overcrowded”) footbridge turns back into an oasis of contemplation.  Why the history of Bruges’ canals and lace-making are far more dramatic than their charm suggests. How to pay less for mussels than the average visitor does—for mussels that aren’t merely average.

Local tour guides Filip Bil and Annemieke Demuynck provide cultural context that turns travel to Bruges, Belgium into a life-changing experience. Image © Joyce McGreevy

At a neighborhood gem I’d never have found on my own, local guides Filip Bil and
Annemieke Demuynck swap travel stories with my family.
© Joyce McGreevy

“As a person who actually lives there,” says Demuynck, “you have the opportunity to show what is really important and interesting.  [Guides] can make it personal, showing you their favorite places that locals visit. Those are mostly far away from the tourist traps.”

By contrast, when we deprive ourselves of opportunities to learn from knowledgeable local guides, we’re left with the “glance-and-go” effect: We see places, but we don’t see into them.

“I Don’t Want to Seem Like a Tourist.”

One misconception about hiring tour guides is that it reduces one’s credibility as an “authentic” traveler. Tell that to travel experts like Rick Steves or National Geographic Explorers, who all depend on local guides.

Another reason travelers hesitate: Low expectations. They imagine trudging through towns en masse, herded by someone with a big flag. Or they’ve encountered a cynical operator: The bargain that wasn’t. The “cheesy” commentary. The “tour” designed to propel them toward the gift shop.

Julie Cason offers an important clarification. A former publisher and intrepid traveler, Cason has photographed all 50 states and many points abroad, from St. Petersburg to Sao Paolo and Samarkand to Salzburg.

“A personally hired guide,” says Cason, “is distinctly different than the guide one gets with [for example,] a commercial bus tour, where the guide gives canned commentary and makes bad jokes. On a trip of a lifetime—one that is not likely to be repeated—it’s invaluable to have a personal guide at least occasionally to show and tell about the most relevant aspects of what you’ve come to see.”

A travel book with portrait of Jeffrey, a safari guide at Notten’s Bush Camp, South Africa pays tribute to the way local guides provide cultural context. Image ©Julie Cason

In a commemorative travel book, Cason paid tribute to the
important work of  local guides.
© Julie Cason

Life-Changing Experiences

In 2010,  Cason, her wife, and three friends, including photographer Keven A. Seaver, traveled through southern Africa. The five women made a point of hiring local tour guides, rangers for safaris and cultural guides for other sites.  They wanted to make the most of their time, stay safe, and gain insight into each country’s history and cultures.

“Everyone—books, people, websites—warned us away from touring Joberg,” recalls Cason. Have I mentioned that she is an avid scholar of history and a dedicated advocate for human rights? And that the sprawling Soweto township of Johannesburg was once home to human rights heroes  President Nelson Mandela and Archbishop Desmond Tutu?

“We felt as if we needed a guide, since we thought it important to visit the capital city.”

There they met historian and tour guide Robin Binckes. As a Boer who had come of age during Apartheid, he quickly become committed to ending it. Binckes guided Cason’s group through the apartheid sites in Johannesburg.

A portrait of South African historian and renowned local guide Robin Binckes suggests how hiring a private tour guide provides cultural context to a travel experience. Image © Keven A. Seaver

“[Meeting] Binckes was the highlight of my trip,” says Keven Seaver, who
documented the Soweto and Alexandra townships in her book Streets of Hope.
© Keven A. Seaver

“We not only got first-hand stories,” Cason recalls, “but also well-researched historical background as we visited the incredible Supreme Court building, the Apartheid Museum—still one of the best museums I’ve been to anywhere in the world—and the township of Soweto, including meeting children who attended Robin’s own preschool.”

A portrait of Ntando Mbatha, formerly a prisoner at Robben Island, now a tour guide there, signifies how hiring a local guide provides cultural context to travelers in South Africa. Image © Keven A. Seaver

Like many local guides at Robben Island, Ntando Mbatha had
formerly been a prisoner there with Nelson Mandela.
© Keven A. Seaver

“Experiencing a township with a local who knows, and is loved by, so many residents was something that we’d never have experienced on our own.” Eight years later, says Cason, “We still talk about the personal and moving stories he told us.”

“Shouldn’t We Wait Until the Kids Grow Up?”

No! Josephine was 7, her brother Adji was 10 when they, their mother, Honor Teoudoussia, and 21 other relatives traveled to the Okavango Delta of Botswana.

“Unlike most rivers, it doesn’t reach the sea,” says Teoudoussia. “It spills into the sands of the Kalahari Basin and creates an incredible mosaic of channels, islands, lagoons, and forests that are full of inter-related animal and plant life.”

Two children fascinated by the Okavago Delta, Botswana, suggest why the cultural context that local guides provide elevates travel into a life-changing experience. Image © Honor Teoudoussia

Emma  Ward and her cousin Adji Teoudoussia were fascinated by the
the world’s largest inland delta.
© Honor Teoudoussia

As experts on this complex ecosystem, the guides were also attuned to the way children learn. Josephine and Adji’s favorite guide was Tumeletso Setlabosha, better known as Water. His mother had reportedly given birth to him in a lagoon.

For kids, the opportunities to explore a vast outdoor classroom proved riveting. Water shared spellbinding lessons, many from his childhood or about animals they saw. These were no Disney tales.

Like the story of two antelope who fought so fiercely their horns locked. One fell prey to a lion, while the “survivor” succumbed to the stress of dragging around the remains of a rival. If that isn’t the most memorable argument for working with, instead of against, one another, I don’t know what is.

Animals in the complex ecosystem of the Okavango Delta, Botswana, remind the photographer why the cultural context that local guides provide elevates travel into a life-changing experience. Image © Honor Teoudoussia

“The delta is complex and intricate,” says Teoudoussia. “Every animal, insect, grass blade,
and dust swirl has its own story, and the Botswana bush camp guides know them all.”
© Honor Teoudoussia

Working with, and teaching about, the ecosystem has made Water one of the most respected guides in Botswana. Years later, Teoudoussia who is a National Geographic Learning executive, saw Water in a National Geographic documentary about efforts to save the delta. It did not surprise her to learn that he had managed logistics and navigation for the expedition.

A portrait of happy children and local guide Tumeletso Setlabosha, also known as Water, shows that visiting Okavago Delta, Botswana, is a life-changing experience at any age. Image © Honor Teoudoussia

Josephine (back left), Adji (right), and cousins loved attending “safari school”
with Tumeletso “Water” Setlabosha (center).
© Honor Teoudoussia

Says Josephine, “Guides know a lot of stuff because they’ve been doing it a long time. You meet this new person, someone you will remember.” Adji agrees. “You get information you would [otherwise] never have known.”

“Isn’t Hiring a Personal Tour Guide Expensive?”

Yes and no. Some organizations make it possible to spend a few hours to all day with a licensed guide starting at $35-$100 per person. These guides may have other careers but are passionate about local culture.

Other organizations charge significantly more, as the scope and challenges ramp up, particularly when the local guide is an internationally recognized expert. But “expensive”?  A better question might be: Which will contribute more to your travel experience, upgrading your hotel room, or gaining insights you’ll always remember?

Travel Tip: Costs vary, but certification and training are essential criteria.

Local tour guides Annemieke Demuynck and Filip Bil provide cultural context that turns travel to Bruges, Belgium into a life-changing experience. Image © Joyce McGreevy

“At home with Annemieke and Filip.” With local guides, you’re not among strangers,
but neighbors and new friends.
© Joyce McGreevy

 “You Get to Meet Inspiring People”

When I ask Demuynck what is one of the best things about conducting tours, her response applies equally to guide and traveler: “You get a very interesting view of the world and different cultures. It broadens your view . . . and you get to meet very inspiring people. You only have a short time together, but sometimes you end up being friends at the end of the tour . . . and that is really great.”

Next time you travel, remember: Souvenirs end up at thrift stores. Fancy hotels wreak havoc on your credit. But the cultural context you gain by meeting local tour guides can change your whole life for the better.

Heartfelt thanks to our contributors: award-winning, internationally acclaimed photographer /author Keven A. Seaver; global citizen Julie Cason; the Teoudoussia family; Filip Bil and Annemieke Demuynck. In the interests of full disclosure, Cason and Teoudoussia are my former colleagues. Click the links to learn more.

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Cultural Traditions of the Japanese Tea Ceremony

by Meredith Mullins on October 15, 2018

Japanese woman presents a tea caddy for the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The Way of Tea
© Meredith Mullins

Ichi-go Ichi-e: Life Lessons

Let the tea be simple and your hospitality heartfelt.—Sen no Rikyu*

When I entered the tea house, I suddenly felt reverential—a guest of some greater spirit.

The simple wooden walls, tatami floor, and perfect Ikebana arrangement created a sanctuary so serene that the only sounds were that of the birds in the garden and the simmering water for the tea.

I met Kozue, a student who was dressed in a silk kimono of muted tones of lilac and plum that had been passed through generations of her family. I asked her how long she has been studying the Japanese tea ceremony.

She bowed her head slightly and said, “Only 27 years.”

Japanese woman bows in front of utensils for the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

A lifetime of study
© Meredith Mullins

I knew then that there was a more profound layer to the seeming simplicity of the tea ceremony.

Some art forms take a lifetime to master. The tea ceremony is one of those arts—part of a rich heritage of Japanese cultural traditions.

An alcove in a Japanese tea house, the setting for the Japanese tea ceremony that shows the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The simple elegance of the Japanese tea house
© Meredith Mullins

From Mozart to Chadō

In the interest of full disclosure, I must admit to my tea inspiration. I was reminded of the elegance of the Japanese tea ceremony recently in an episode of “Mozart in the Jungle” (Season 4/Episode 8) directed by Roman Coppola. (Yes, television can be enlightening.) After watching this mesmerizing segment, I went in search of more knowledge.

I was fortunate to find a local class in the art of Japanese tea taught by Mrs. Matsui, who has been studying the tea ceremony for most of her life.

She has built a tea house in the Japanese garden behind her modern California home and teaches those who wish to learn more about the graceful and meticulously choreographed steps in chadō, or the “Way of Tea.”

Japanese teacher Mrs. Matsui oversees a student in the art of the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Mrs. Matsui guides her student in the graceful choreography of the ceremony.
© Meredith Mullins

The Heart of the Ceremony

In Japanese, the tea ceremony is called chanoyu, sadō, or chadō, and is noted as one of the classical Japanese arts.

The ceremony is not just about serving tea. It is a study of philosophy, art, aesthetics, calligraphy, and literature.

More importantly, the ceremony is a traditional way of strengthening the bonds of those participating. It also inspires a commitment of time to the contemplation of beauty.

Japanese woman at door of tea room preparing for a Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The host enters the tea room through a sliding door.
© Meredith Mullins

Ichi-go Ichi-e

Every tea gathering is a special experience. Each occasion calls for unique preparations, depending on the season, the time of day, the guests, and the theme of the ceremony.

The flowers and the hanging scroll in the alcove of the tea house (tokonoma) represent the season and the theme. The tea bowls are selected to match the character of the guests.

The host decides whether to offer a meal or just the traditional sweets, which are served to complement the mild bitterness of the green matcha tea.

Japanese sweets for the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Traditional sweets are served to complement the slight bitterness of the matcha tea.
(Mrs. Matsui diplomatically reminded me to unwrap the one in paper, as the paper is not edible.)
© Meredith Mullins

The host also decides whether to serve thick tea (for more formal occasions, served in one bowl to be shared by all guests) or thin tea (for more informal occasions, with individual tea bowls, chosen for each guest). If the host wishes, both thin tea and thick tea can be served in the same ceremony.

Bowl of matcha tea in a Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Thin matcha tea in a carefully selected bowl for the occasion, the guest, and the season
© Meredith Mullins

All of these preparations ensure that the experience will be completely unique. And that sharing a cup of tea in this moment can never be replicated and, thus, should be treasured.

The Japanese saying Ichi-go Ichi-e means “One time. One Meeting.” Savor the moment, as if it were a once-in-a-lifetime experience . . . because it is.

Japanese symbols for Wa Kei Sei Jaku, the foundation for the Japanese tea ceremony showing cultural traditions of Japan. (Image by Meredith Mullins.)

Wa Kei Sei Jaku: Harmony, Respect, Purity, Tranquility

Wa Kei Sei Jaku

Although each ceremony is different, the four principles of Wa Kei Sei Jaku are always the foundation.

Wa: harmony
Kei: respect
Sei: purity
Jaku: tranquility

These principles ensure that the host and guests show respect for one another, that everyone leaves behind the thoughts and burdens of outside life, that the ceremony is performed from a pure heart, and that, hopefully, everyone finds some inner peace during the ceremony.

Japanese woman offers sweets in a Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The sharing of a unique moment . . . from the heart.
© Meredith Mullins

The Poetry of Silence

The ceremony is filled with the sensory pleasures. Not only the graceful movements of the host, as the tools are carefully placed and cleaned and as the tea is prepared, but the heightened sounds, since most of the ceremony is performed in silence.

Japanese woman cleaning tea scoop for a Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The tea scoop, carved from a single piece of bamboo or ivory, is cleaned
with an intricately folded silk cloth.
© Meredith Mullins

The pouring of the tea water from the ladle brings to mind the sound of nature’s flowing water.

The ladling of water during a Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

During the silent preparation, sounds are a sensory pleasure.
© Meredith Mullins

The whisking of the powdered tea and hot water, even though the most frenetic part of the gentle ceremony, is so rhythmic it seems to soothe the soul.

Hands whisking matcha tea in a bowl during the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The powdered matcha tea is rapidly whisked together with the hot water.
© Meredith Mullins

The rustling silk of kimonos is a reminder of the depth of tradition.

This is not a chatty social gathering. The conversation is limited to guests asking about the provenance of the utensils, remarking on their beauty, and, perhaps, discussing the theme of the ceremony.

Japanese woman displays the utensils of the Japanese tea ceremony, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

The host often displays the utensils for the guests to examine more closely.
© Meredith Mullins

“Oh, I See” Moments from “The Way of Tea”

I was mesmerized by the tea ceremony—hypnotic and elegant. It reaches into the depths of Japanese heritage and cultural traditions.

It reminded me of the beauty you can see when you take the time to appreciate the small details of the world and when you spend moments of quiet time being in the present.

Close up of the tools of the Japanese tea ceremony as the host pours the matcha powder, showing the cultural traditions of Japan. (Image © Meredith Mullins.)

Every element adds to the harmony and beauty and the experience.
© Meredith Mullins

What impressed me the most are lessons that could be applied outside of the tea ceremony.

  • Being present in the moment to appreciate the beauty of simplicity and tradition.
  • Thinking only of others—your guests—and doing everything for their benefit.
  • Showing ultimate respect for one another.
  • Sharing something from the heart to strengthen bonds of friendship.

There are many profound elements to the Japanese tea ceremony. For me, the philosophies that could be applied to the rest of life will be the lasting treasures.

*Sen no Rikyu was the Japanese Tea Master who raised the tea ceremony to the level of art in the 16thcentury.

Thank you to Mrs. Matsui and Kozue Knowles for their guidance in understanding the depth of the tea ceremony and to Cha-Ya tea shop.

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