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Creative Pictures Capture Time Passing

by Meredith Mullins on January 9, 2014

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Korean teacher reflected in mirror as younger self, one of a series of creative pictures by Tom Hussey on aging. (Photo © Tom Hussey)

A teacher sees her younger self, one of a series of creative pictures by Tom Hussey.
© Tom Hussey, TOM HUSSEY Photography LLC. All rights reserved.

Tom Hussey’s Reflections on Aging

We are nine days old in the new year—a calendar transition accompanied by nostalgia for the past and hope for the future, as well as inspiration for resolution and reflection.

Today, in the spirit of reflection, OIC asks, “What happens when you look in a mirror?”

An Unexpected Connection with Argentine Tango

by Bruce Goldstone on January 6, 2014

Microscopic cells next to a couple dancing the Argentine tango, illustrating an unexpected connection between two life passions. (Images © tagota / Thinkstock (L) and © Alejandro Puerta (R))

From the science of cells to dancing at sunset. What’s the connection?
© tagota / Thinkstock (L) and © Alejandro Puerta (R)

Linking Life Passions

What does Argentine tango have to do with molecular biology?

The fields seem disparate, but to Alejandro Puerta, the connection is perfectly clear. They are his life passions, though the link wasn’t always obvious to him, either.

The Dancing Biologist

Today, Puerta teaches tango in Buenos Aires, Argentina, the home of the passionate dance that has intrigued people around the world since the 1890’s. Puerta’s strengths as a tango professor are deeply rooted in his unusual background. He has a Ph.D. in molecular biology and worked for years as a scientist in Japan.

When he became frustrated with limitations in the lab, Puerta decided to leave Japan, and biology, and return to his native Buenos Aires. His initial adjustment was far from painless. Puerta admits:

“Giving up my career as a molecular biologist left me with an enormous sense of loss. I couldn’t stand thinking about all the years I’d ‘wasted’ getting my Ph.D., working in laboratories, and publishing in science journals.”

At first, he struggled to start from scratch on a new career. To clear his mind, he threw himself into his passion—Argentine tango.

“I worked on my tango daily, as therapy. Two hours a day became five, then seven. I started assistant-teaching in group classes and eventually led classes.”

But he still didn’t think of tango as a serious professional option. Until one day, a student asked for a private class in his home-studio, and his teaching business took off on its own.

Argentine tango teacher Alejandro Puerta dancing with a student in San Telmo, Buenos Aires. (Image © Alejandro Puerta)

Teaching tango in San Telmo, Buenos Aires
© Alejandro Puerta

Walking and Talking Tango

At an essential level, tango is walking with a partner to music. Dancers respond emotionally to the rhythm and feeling of the music. Feet are generally kept close to the floor, giving the dance its familiar look of weight and balance.

A man and a woman dancing the Argentine tango. (Image © sodapix / Thinkstock)

If you can walk, with practice you can tango, too.
© sodapix / Thinkstock

Puerta recognizes that Argentine tango is not something you learn in a few classes. It takes patience to learn, practice, and really integrate the fundamentals.

For Puerta, a successful tango doesn’t rely on flashy footwork or glitz—it’s all about the connection between the dancers. The leader and follower share equally in creating a powerful, palpable connection.

When you’re truly connected with your partner, the signals flow easily and you move as one, as the dancers in this video.

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The Language of Tango

In many ways, learning to tango is like learning another language. But this language is expressed by the body instead of the voice.

Instead of studying vocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation, students study posture, walking, and connection.

Puerta agrees that viewing tango as a language can help students overcome unrealistic and unproductive learning styles. He explains:

“So many students take group classes where they learn sequences of steps. They mistakenly think that learning tango is simply mimicking those sequences. They focus on looking like what they saw.

“But learning tango is really learning the body vocabulary. It is up to the dancers to make their own music out of that vocabulary.”

A good tango is a conversation between the dancers, and later, between the couple dancing and the other couples on the dance floor.

Instead of learning a set of rigid phrases, like those in a primitive guidebook, Puerta teaches a flexible vocabulary of movements that students can use to say what they want to say when they dance.

Argentine tango teacher Alejandro Puerta and student. (Image © Alejandro Puerta)

Student and teacher share their thoughts while taking a break from dancing.
© Alejandro Puerta

Finding the Connection

When tango dancers engage in their unique “conversation,” they make a connection. Puerta insists:

“In tango, connection is everything. And there is no connection without perfect posture. I love the detail and precision of tango class; it satisfies the scientist in me. But the essence of the dance—embrace and musicality—feeds my artistic side, which was starving in my former career.”

And that’s when Puerta had an “Oh, I see” moment. He realized that he never really abandoned his scientist self:

“The most surprising part of this whole journey has been the discovery that I didn’t have to start over from scratch. Everything I learned as a scientist informs the way I teach tango.

“For example, I think I analyze and explain movement as if I were dissecting a specimen. I want each movement to be completely reproducible—like a science experiment. You have to be able to get the exact same results every time.”

Man and woman dancing the Argentine tango. (Image © Alejandro Puerta)

Communication is key, on the dance floor or in the lab.
© Alejandro Puerta

He continues:

“That means learning precise posture, and it means understanding why holding your body in a certain way affects a movement. If a student doesn’t understand my explanation, I find another way to communicate the information. Just as I did in the lab.”

In his new career, Puerta’s life passions—the precision of the molecular biologist and the artistic “conversation” between tango dancers—have come together. When he says “connection is everything,” he could be referring as much to his own life as he is to a couple dancing the Argentine tango.

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From Smart Dogs: 10 Lessons for a Happy Life

by Sheron Long on January 2, 2014

Dog laughing, illustrating how learning life lessons from dogs can lead to a happy life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Want a happy life in 2014? Ask a dog for advice.
© Dezi Grieg

Oh, I See. My Dog Taught Me!

Smart dogs can sit and stay. They can fetch and even speak on cue. But the lessons we humans give to our dogs in one-syllable commands fall way short of the rich life lessons we get in return.

Oh, I See Moments found that out when we asked dog owners to tell us the lessons they’ve learned from their smart, funny, loving and lovable pups.

The lessons go well-beyond “turn around three times before you plop down” to offer great advice on making a happy life. May these life lessons from dogs unleash happy times for you in 2014!

1. Do What Makes You Happy.

Dezi Greig’s dogs Titan and Odin taught Dezi a thing or two about happiness.

Dog running enthusiastically through a field, illustrating life lessons from dogs on doing what makes you happy in life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Life off-leash for Titan is life lived to the fullest.
© Dezi Greig

Of the energetic Titan, Dezi says:

Titan taught me to play hard, sleep in, smile big, love more, forgive and forget. Thanks, buddy!

Greig caught the oversized Odin in an oversized chair. A happy moment, a perfect fit. What was Greig’s take-away from his pooch?

Be goofy, yell if you feel like it, if it makes you happy just do it, bite the vet.

Large dog asleep in chair, illustrating life lessons from dogs on doing what makes you happy in life. (Image © Dezi Greig)

Big ole Odin knew how to do exactly what made him happy.
© Dezi Greig

2. Poke Your Nose into Adventure.

How can you figure out what makes you happy if you don’t partake of life?

Dog in profile with gleam in his eye, life lessons from dogs on pursuing adventure to make a happy life. (Image © Rudy Martinez)

With a gleam in his eye, Dexter is always looking
for the next adventure!
© Rudy Martinez

Comedian Rudy Martinez learned about that from his dog Dexter:

Dexter taught me that frogs are not to be ingested, golfers are evil, that big dogs are chew toys with legs, and most importantly that dogs love a good dance party as much as anyone. 

When it comes to life’s adventures, some are good and some are bad, but all count for something.

3. Live in the Moment.

When water presents itself, Lee McMullan’s dog loves to splash through it, causing Lee to develop this strategy for living in the moment:

Don’t worry, you’ll dry. 

Dog splashing through water, illustrating life lessons from dogs on living in the moment to make a happy life. (Image © Lee McMullan)

Get your paws wet! This moment may not come around again.
© Lee McMullan

4. Share Time and Treats with Friends.

From her dog Luna, Malory Mildenberger learned the best kind of treats to offer a friend:

An over-abundance of exuberance, smiles, energy, a shoulder to lean on, a paw to extend in aid, a tail that never stops wagging, eyes brighter than the sun, a thick coat for when things get a bit rough, a ball to share, and kisses to heal wounds that are either physical or psychological. 

Dog on bed whose behavior has life lessons for people on how to keep good friends close and have a happy life. (Image © Malory Mildenberger)

Behind Luna’s wise eyes are
the secrets for keeping good friends.
© Malory Mildenberger

5. Stay Curious.

What does the underside of a cow chin look like? My dog, Chula the Sheltie, just had to know. She was always curious, perhaps because she traveled between California and France and relished seeing new things.

Dog nuzzling a large plastic cow, illustrating life lessons for people on staying curious. (Image © Sheron Long)

“Pardonnez-moi,” says Chula, “I’m a little curious about your chin.”
© Sheron Long

Her curiosity took her under the food tables at the big Provencal markets, through lavender fields, down Paris streets and into butcher shops. Chula shared her French adventures from her dog’s-eye view in our book Dog Trots Globe

Her curiosity inspired me—she taught me to  sniff around and see what I could see, to sniff out fun things to do and learn. And she did everything with that wonderful Sheltie smile.

6. Pursue Your Passion.

Katrina Brooks tried to teach her pooch Max that “patience is a virtue,” but it may not be when it comes to pursuing your passion.

Dog going after food, illustrating life lessons from dogs on pursuing a passion to make a happy life. (Image © Katrina Brooks)

Max knows. Pursuing a passion can take focus and speed.
© Katrina Brooks

7. Make the Most of Every Day.

Alisha Rea was there the day her first puppy Banner was born. She describes how she literally saved the life of her best friend:

When Banner was delivered, she was lifeless and still. I began to cry and accept the fact that she was dead. My mother rubbed her all over and gave her mouth-to-mouth. I continued as my mom ran in the house for a warm cloth. Out of nowhere, I felt movement—it was so magical! I had brought her back and watched her take her first breath. That was 13 years ago. 

Smiling dog, illustrating life lessons from dogs on appreciating life. (Image © Alishia Rea)

Banner and her owner Alisha love their life together.
© Alishia Rea

Banner and Alisha grew up together. They have been a team, herding sheep, showing in 4-H, visiting nursing homes. Their bond has taught Alisha to:

Live every day as if it were my last, cherish my friends, smile over the little things, and have patience even when all seems lost. 

8. Learn New Tricks.

If you want to get out of a rut in 2014, take a lesson from Lia. This surfer dog will tell you that practice has a payoff.

Surfer dog, illustrating life lessons from dogs on learning new tricks to make a happy life. (Image © Agi Cortez)

If every doggie had an ocean, would she learn new tricks?
© Agi Cortez

Her owner Agi Cortez explains how Lia learned to surf:

Since puppydom, Lia has always preferred to sit on the center console in the car, refusing to ever take the back seat. This summer, she showed us what she’s spent years developing—her balance!

9. Be Just Who You Are.

Terina Stewart’s BFF has his own style.

Dog in sunglasses, illustrating life lessons from dogs on being yourself to make a happy life. (Image © Terina Stewart)

A big guy with style
© Terina Stewart

He likes himself and the way he looks, the one essential for loving someone else. And clearly he loves Terina. She says:

Even though he is big, he still likes to climb on my lap and cuddle.

10. Love and Be Loved Without Expectations.

Abandoned and full of drool, dirt, and mats, Thor was wandering down a highway when Kirsten Brand found him. It took Kirsten weeks to clean him up and months to heal his scars.

Now a year later, Thor has fallen in love with his forever family, protecting them seriously and loving them with all his heart. What did Thor teach Kirsten?

He taught me that when you truly and fully put into a relationship, you will get back more than you ever thought you could.

White dog with a smile, illustrating life lessons from dogs on how unconditional love leads to a happy life. (Image © Kirsten Brand)

Unconditional love is a two-way street
in Thor’s forever home.
© Kirsten Brand

 

To see even more of these remarkable canine-inspired life lessons, download the free ebook:

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