Your office resembles an archaeological dig. In your inbox, emails line up like stalled planes on a runway. Meanwhile, status meetings about The Project keep you scrambling to fit in actual work.

As a result, your brain has upgraded to Frequent Flyer, briefly but repeatedly transporting you to your destination—although you’ve never been there.

It’s travel anticipation. As scientists have reported, looking forward to a vacation can boost one’s happiness for up to eight weeks.

For entrepreneur and Ted Talk speaker Jen Rubio, travel anticipation is a barrier to the journey. The construct of a place in our heads may keep us from experiencing a place in the moment.

Flying Forward into the Past

For some of us, it begins with the irrational joy of waking in pre-dawn darkness—we who normally need bulldozers, caffeine, and marching-band music to pry us from bed. Ah, but today we’re traveling!

Now it’s off to the airport. As a pilot’s daughter, I’m an anomaly: I still love to fly.

How I loved Trans World Airlines’ old terminal at JFK. Even the architect’s name, Eero Saarinen, evoked the elegance of flight. Time was, that terminal felt like an extension of home, so familiar were its contours, colors, even certain smudges and scuffmarks.

Years after Dad died, the mere sight of a flight crew was comforting. He cherished flight, was an early advocate for female pilots, made friendships across cultures, and respected passengers. Hundreds of thousands slumbered in safety as he carried them across continents and oceans.

Aero (Not So) Dynamic

For others, airports are to journeys what meetings are to productivity—a drag.

“I just want to be there,” says a man in the seat ahead of me as we wait (and wait) for our plane to be de-iced. It’s late at night and we’re still on the tarmac.

Around him, passengers grimace in agreement. Conversations begin, and just like that the air of impatience lifts.

Even that brief camaraderie is a beginning of sorts. For all the tropes about passengers clamping on headphones and studiously ignoring each other, moments of dialogue, courtesy, or acknowledgment remind us that, when we travel, our sense of community travels with us.

The Art of Presence

Some travelers possess rare patience. Like the parents I encounter in a slow-moving security line. Their unwavering calm, as they soothe a fussing infant and keep a three-year-old boy engaged, is a thing of beauty.

In this impersonal setting, they find details of interest and craft them into endearing commentaries.

“Why yes,” says Young Dad nodding at the Prohibited Materials sign, “That shape does look like a dinosaur.”

Young Mom displays a text message. “Grandma says she’s too excited to see us!”

Mild concern passes over the toddler’s face. Smoothing the air with his hands, he says, “Tell Grandma to just be ooo-kaaay.”

By the time we reach the conveyor belts, 35 minutes later, I’m feeling surprisingly okay, too.

The Light that Illuminates the Road

Appreciating any given moment of a journey is a theme of artist Randall Von Bloomberg. One spring day, I discover his art in a hallway that connects Terminals 7 and 8 at LAX.

I’m noticing the scroll-like curve of the wall, unaware of what awaits. But even before I reach the point where the paintings begin, the exhibition title catches my attention.

According to Von Bloomberg, “Tathata is a Sanskrit word that expresses the profound awareness and appreciation of reality within each single moment of life. Tathata is often revealed in the seemingly mundane, such as observing the sun illuminating an asphalt road, or noticing the blowing wind along a grassy parkway.”

For him, an airport terminal “is a perfect place for this exhibition because it is such an in-between space.” His paintings invite travelers to experience the interconnectivity of time, humanity, and nature.

What Journey?

David Bowie once said, “The truth is, there is no journey. We are arriving and departing all at the same time.” Yet those innumerable moments hold clues to why we travel.

A moment when you are asked directions in a country not your own—and you know the way. When you dream in another language. When you forget to take a photo, because you are so absorbed in seeing.

Experience Randall Von Bloomberg’s artwork, including his online nature walk, produced with musician Patrick Schulz.

Listen to Jen Rubio’s thought-provoking Ted Talk, “The Anticipation of Travel,” here.

Historic photos of the TWA flight center at JFK are from the Library of Congress, Prints & Photographs Division, Balthazar Korab Archive at the Library of Congress.

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